
Do you automatically assume that people find you unattractive?


Fit me it's the opposite. Men of every race including my very dark sexy black husband always tell me I'm the most beautiful and most feminine girl they've ever met. I'm a white girl and I'm 4'11" and 88 lbs. with natural pure platinum blonde super shiny hair much longer than I am tall, the lightest brighter bluest eyes, a perfect body naturally large tits, beautiful face, and beautiful smile. I always dress all in very super bright pink and like a dominatrix, and always wear very super bright pink very high heeled thigh high platform boots, very super bright pink long gloves, and a very super bright pink headband and carry around a very super bright pink whip. I wear glasses that are very super bright pink. Everything I wear and ken including houses and cars, and everything in my houses and cars is very super bright pink. Even the cigarettes o smoke are very super bright pink. I'm completely all natural beauty too. No makeup, plastic surgery, implants or fake anything. Completely 100% natural. Men of all races including my very dark sexy black husband literally worship me and tell me I'm by far the most beautiful most feminine sluttiest girl they've ever seen, and love that everything I wear and pen is very super bright pink. Women especially black women are sooo jealous of me. Black women especially get soooo jealous and mad when they see me with my very dark sexy black husband and my black kids. I just laugh. Their jealousy and anger is so funny and amusing.
Oh yeah, all the time. Not being hard on myself, I just realize that I am not everyone's taste or what most consider attractive: that's called being realistic.
I am average looking at best and do not have any features that make me stand out- at least by today's unrealistic standards people use as a gauge for beauty. But that's okay! I'm healthy, and for the most part, like myself, so I can live with not being that attractive to others.
This is a tough one for me. In theory it’s better to assume that people find you attractive and that will make you more confident which in itself is attractive.
However I have met delusional people before i. e. BBW women who really think most fit/athletic men will be into them and much older guys who are bald/have pot bellies who think they can successfully hit on a woman in her early 20s. Although trend has been more of the former and less of the latter.
Anyway I don’t want to come off as delusional in certain circumstances. But the flip side is I could sell myself short assuming the pretty girl I am attracted to is “out of my league”.
Best bet is always to be just friendly with the person you are interested in. Watch carefully how they react. If they find you attractive they will show some signals.
Yes. Most of my life people have made fun of the way I look. Physically, I don't have much going for me, so I've just come to accept it. Even if somebody tells me I'm attractive, I'll wonder if they're just blowing smoke up my ass to make me feel good.
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Idgaf what others think of me. I just do what I do. Thank you if you find me attractive, if not, idc !
Sometimes, lol. It’s just a fleeting thought most of the times. Whenever I feel insecure, my friends cheer me up and call me hot… I’m good with that😂
I don’t find myself particularly attractive. Hypothetically speaking, if I were a guy, I wouldn’t date me.
Yes, and more and more I think it's the actual truth.
Every time I liked a guy it wasn't even mutual, one even gave me mixed signals and just downright played with my feelings.
So I'm either unattractive or just downright boring af. I came to this conclusion.
It is easy for a Guy to feel unattractive when He is rejected by a Woman. The expectations society has of men are as follows.
1) Men should be rich
2) if a Man does not have a pretty big chested woman holding on to His arm then He is considered a loser.
This is one reason Men hate rejection.
No need to assume, I know it. I've been told so since the kindergarden, then in school, then in high school... Only in the university they didn't but it was clear what they were thinking and it was the same out of the university.
That's why I never put a profile picture of myself.
Yes, and am genuinely surprised when they do. I put more effort in my appearance now, but there’s this woman I’m talking to online that likes me both on my cute days and my ugly days for some reason. I point out the things I don’t like in my worse pics, but she disagrees. I won’t argue with her though, so far I like her too much.
I used to but its more neutral now. I might be lacking just a tad in the looks department for right now but i feel extremely confident in my personality, not to the point where im arrogant mind you, just enough to where i know who i am and what i want in life
I harshly judge anyone who finds me attractive especially because I put zero effort into my appearance ( working out being the only exception) if a woman calls me attractive I get annoyed because it feels like I’m being mocked and I usually respond with “ That’s not funny”
I don't worry about 90% of women aren't interested typically anyhow. Generally if they're flirting with you it's ONLY for your attention. And if they're not really interested what's it really matter whether someone finds you attractive or not? I mean it doesn't really change reality.
I honestly do not think i am attractive but i have people telling me i am attractive. beauty is in eye of beholder.
Unattractive? No, I don’t automatically assume people find me unattractive. I want to think most women find me at least decent-looking.
Yes, that's always one of my first assumptions when I meet someone. Especially if it's a guy that I'm interested in.
No because I’m not unattractive, but with that being said everyone has their preferences and types so I don’t make assumptions one way or another.
Nope, I know that the majority of people find me attractive and therefore I don't assume anything negative about my looks
Well... Kind of?
Not like I think they find me gross or anything, but I assume they don't find me attractive.
Yes I consider myself unattractive. Even if I'm complimented or told that I am not unattractive, I do not believe you.
Sure. I know I am not because my pictures shows. but it’s okay, I’m better than what I look like.
No. I have a mirror. Affirmation of others is often linked with desire to get something from you.
Absolutely
I assume that someone must be trolling, or joking, or trying to be nice, when they compliment me on my loiks
Yup lol. I don't even find me attractive 😂.
You're super sweet Moonz ❤️
I suppose so, I've been alone most of my life but, at the same time, I've had LOTS of spoken-for women chase me!! So, there MUST be SOMETHING there!
Absolutely. Women will often complement me on the way I dress, but seldom anything else. I'm not a bad looking guy by my standards, but it seems safe to assume that I'm no Chris Pratt in the eyes of most women.
No, I dont give two shits what someone thinks. Ironically, that somehow garners attention as if I am attractive...
Attraction is biological. We aren’t meant to be attractive to everyone.
Depends how good they look, I sometimes assume I'm out of their league but it's not a big deal, it's why I aim for average girls 😆
No I do not, but they should never assume too much about me in general until they give it a try.
I assume everyone finds me unattractive until they tell me and then I still don't believe them. 😅
Yep, cause there's every reason for them to and I don't recall too many bearing at my door when I were single
Yep, I'm pretty much bald, have a major dad bod. I don't see myself as attractive at all
Definitely. Because I am unattractive. And short (180 cm). And dark. And overweight.
At least not personality wise. I like to think I have a good heart
I assume that I won't be to every woman's taste, of course. I'm finding it easier and easier to tell those who are interested, though, so it doesn't bother me as much now.
No, I take care of myself, smile and I am friendly.
I used to, but looking back I see that I was quite attractive.
Oh yes I think most people do, but you can't think of yourself that way!
I don’t assume every girl thinks I’m sexy as hell, but I think most agree I’m above average
Given the number of guys who stare at me as I walk past I would say no
I don't care. What you see is what you get.
Some may like it, others won't.
No. I don't pay people any mind unless I can see they're something off about them.
I think all women want to be with me and all men want to beat me up, because they are not me. lol
I know some people may find my looks unattractive but not everyone. I personally don’t think I’m that bad looking
People do compliment me... But before I hit puberty I was not really pretty... So I still think that I am ugly... And are just comforting me by saying I am good looking
When a lady looks at me they always run for cover. Just saying
Not "unattractive" , but nothing to go after either. 😁
If you girls, sending you cock shots. Their all SCUMBAGS
Nah, I assume they are not paying attention to me.
Of course, because they do. And they're right about it.
Sometimes, It depends on how they react to me.
Physically, no. My attitude at times can be rather ugly though.
I've already accepted and know i'm unattractive, I tell myself if i was a girl i wouldn't date me
Duh. I mean, I got rejected so many times that now I expect it
Even if im told otherwise I still struggle to believe it 😅
Only racist people I know am a 7 out of 10 according to people in real life
I do and I know it’s not healthy. It comes from being rejected non stop 24/7
No, but when we talk love, that doubt is there!
Nobody has told me otherwise, so...
100% because I is
nope, not in my experience...
No, thats negitive energy and I don't need that.
No, I'm hot until proven otherwise.
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