Do you tend to be blunt most of the time?

[capriVib]

When you say what people want to hear, you become the best person in the world. But when you're honest and straightforward, they can't handle it you suddenly become a bad person with a wicked heart. This never fails.

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10 mo

As long as it’s not rude, being straightforward is a good thing. However, most people can only be outspoken when they're behind a keyboard in real life, many can’t say what first comes to their mind :d

[OneViewpoint]

I'm brutally blunt. It works for me. I don't need people to like me. I don't want people around me who can't handle the truth. And most people are not really that interesting to talk to. I'm good with a small circle of friends.

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

No, I really don't tend to, most of the time I'm the opposite of bluntness. I strongly lean towards thoughtfulness instead

[capriVib]

As long as u're not rude or insulting, isn't being blunt the right thing to do? Otherwise, by not being straightforward, wouldn't you just be letting people take advantage of u and wasting your time and energy?

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

Well, in this world, there are many ways to disagree about or question what the right thing is. It is the right thing, for me, to behave like I do.

By not being straightforward, in my eyes, I'm sparing me some troubles in social settings. Because I noticed that blunt people attract troubles. That said, I like them, they're refreshing. It's just that I fond no personal benefit in behaving like they do.

[midnightmoon05]

Very honest. That’s why most women don’t like me. Which is okay. They like to hear lies 😂

[capriVib]

Being straightforward with women can be more problematic if a woman is overweight, telling her she’s gained weight or pointing out her mistakes can worsen things. Lying seems better. 😛👍

[midnightmoon05]

I learned they like lies… I am not good at… so I prefer guys as friends over females as friends.
Weight gain, if natural and healthy within range… is okay… see that how I talk, but they want me to say… oh you look great Susie… I can’t do that. 😂

[Fireguy17]

Im honest in a nice way, except when my wife asks about her hair, butt, jeans stuff like that.
Don't ask if you are not prepared for the answer

[NordicInScandinavia]

"I'm honest in a nice way except towards my wifes questions" 😳😳😳😳

She really found herself a champ here.

[dustybiker2]

Yes. I don't sugar coat and will warn people if they want my opinion I will give it honestly.

[noohair]

The story of my life, my motto is, “if you don’t want my honest opinion, don’t ask me any questions”.

[onedarkcloud]

I am as subtle as a brick through a plate glass window

[Abbycado]

I’m very blunt lmao

@HollyK21 XD

[HollyK21]

LMAO I’m working on it😂💀

[beefcakebradybatson]

Eighty to ninety percent of the time. In other words, to a fault.

[trumpetplayerforlife]

Depends the subject but I feel like i usually am

[BarryLiverstone]

Over time I’m becoming more blunt

[exitseven]

Yes, I do not like to screw around.

[Dargil]

Direct.