I think my roommate let someone sleep in my bed when I was gone for the weekend!!!

[Anonymous]

So I went home for the weekend and the agreement between my roommate and I was that people may only sit on my bed if the bed is made (the comforter is covering the sheets). I got back today and she told me that one of our hall mates visiting friends had fallen asleep on top of my comforter and they couldn't wake him up so they just left him there.

Now I'm just getting ready for bed, and something isn't the same about the way the bed is made... but I can't pinpoint what's different. I'm really starting to think she lied to me and let someone sleep in my bed. Honestly, if she had been honest and said someone slept in my bed, I wouldn't care as much because I would know I have to change my sheets. But now I'm sitting here wondering whether or not someone did sleep in my bed, and I had to change the sheets because I just don't know.

So here's my question: 1. Should I say something to her, even though she's already claimed he slept on top of my comforter? 2. Any ideas about discrete little tricks I could use when I make the bed the next time I leave so as to be able to tell if someone did sleep in my bed, and then remade it?

[TimePhantom]

If it really bothered you that much you can bring it up again with your roommate. Maybe she thinks you will freak out or something. I would just tell her that if someone does sleep in your bed again to please let you know just so you can change the sheets. I knew a friend slept in my bed when I was away because I always throw my sheets off to the left when I wake up, and I don't make my bed, anyways the sheets were going the wrong way, so I found out. I am a germaphobe when it comes to my bed, I don't even like people sitting on it, so I get why he didn't tell me.

[ElijahCynicism]

If she did lie to you, its probably just because your'e such a tightass. You should stop being such a tightass. I mean, its a bed, jesus. Unless you've got like, compulsions or something, which'd make this a whole different story, but you'd have mentioned that I'm sure.

[TheDragonborn]

Or maybe you and the stupid bastard that slept in her bed should learn not to be such disrespectful dicks. You don't get in someone else's bed. He might not have washed or he could've drooled. He could have MRSA for all she knows. I don't think she's being a "tightass" for not wanting some stranger in her bed. Idiot.

[NorXm]

People are missing the point ! So what if it's just a "Bed" . I don't care if it's a pack of crackers , you need to have respect and Learn to ASK FIRST. Don't miss the principal. If you feel it isn't serious then let the whole campus go sleep IN YOUR BED.

[Alanaaa]

... This isn't serious.You actually took the time to type all that sh*t out?

[Anonymous]

god damn someone needs to like smoke some pot and chill the f*** out... you're kind of a control freak. change the sheets and move on lol

[Anonymous]

ugh that happened to me too. I started just stripping my bed before I went home for the weekend that way no one could sleep in it

[foolycooly1001]

Are you a germophobe or something?