American men think a girl will marry him just for the green card?

[red-lipstick-girl]

That's why most foreign girls don't want them, news from another country other than America, men think America is very special, this is really funny

[WindAtMyBack]

It's an undisputable fact that foreign women do that. This is very well known.

It's not just the United States, it's many first world countries. It's the same in Canada, Australia, many parts of Europe, etc.

It doesn't mean she WILL be after a green card, but it's common enough that any guy potentially marrying a woman from foreign countries should consider the possibility. Some guys don't even care and will do it knowingly and willingly. It's not entirely limited to women from third world countries. I know a Japanese women who lived pretty well in Japan, but still married a guy for his visa.

This isn't new. It's been going since long before the Internet. I remember seeing printed magazines back in the 70s that listed thousands of foreign women looking for American men for marriage.

My friend in the Philippines said every women in her office is looking for an American man.

I don't know why you'd deny this or think it's funny. It's just the way it is. It's a way for women to make a better life for themselves.

[Anonymous]

Not all, but a lot certainly will. You may not think America is special but a lot of people do, that’s why they risk their lives to come here. I work in the hospital, mainly dominated by women. Especially Philippine women who came here from the Philippines. They talk about things like that, just have to ask. I spent 8 years in the military. The amount of women that waited for us to get off ship for the day. Like a kid in a candy store. So your experience may be different then mine or men in general. Usually men from other countries aren’t trying to marry western women to come here.

[WellBye]

They seem to. I've received unwanted attention from them a few times abroad, and they're like, "I live in the most beautiful country in the world, and I know you're dying to marry me." It was irritating how they thought they were a prize on a silver platter. Although seeing how Filipino girls treat them, it's no wonder they feel that way.

[avery58]

The thing is, it does happen. I met a guy who married someone Peru and once she was here she cheated on him and ended the relationship.

That doesn't mean that all foreign women are like that of course, and one shouldn't just make assumptions. Nobody is forcing them to date someone that they don't fully trust in the first place.

[NoDecision]

Women from the Philippines sure will. They have women on dating sites there that will gladly marry a 60-year-old American man just to get to the US. Then, once there, they dump him for younger men. I can't see women marrying for a green card as being any different.

[BonzoInBitburg]

You're not wrong. My wife is from the Philippines and she has friends who are currently in the US on travel visas for the sole purpose of marrying for a green card. She also has friends so desperate to leave the Philippines for a better life they'll marry anyone with an American pulse and leave them at the first opportunity and not feel bad about it because they treat it as a good business decision. American men are dumb

[NoDecision]

@BonzoInBitburg I don't know about dumb, just hungry for love and not using the right head in their decisions.

[Anonymous]

There WAS a time when women from more oppressed countries wanted to marry American men to get out of their own country. Not so much any more. Much of the rest of the world gets accurate news reporting, be it from the BBC or Al Jazeera or any number of sources. Try swallowing this fact:

* People who follow real news around the world know more, and have access to more truth about what's happening in the USA, than people in the USA know or have access to.*

It's true. The reputation of the USA has been exposed and tarnished around the world. The only people who don't know this are the cult and those who have never been outside the USA.

[Jackblue]

Al Jazeera is run by a Government in a country where people are essentially still enslaved, they have their passports seized and are often confined to houses. Britain thanks to its liberal government arrests an average of 30 people a day for speech crimes. BBC is run by the British government. Me thinks they aren't trustworthy and that they are the ones who should be described as cults. www.ituc-csi.org/.../...nst_qatar_en_web170314.pdf www.amnesty.org/en/documents/mde22/3175/2020/en/, nypost.com/.../

[Opinion Owner]

@Jackblue Yet ironically, each of their news bureaus reports events more accurately and with less bias than most US based news outlet. I never said anything about who owns or controls those media source. What I SAID was they report the news accurately, and they cover pertinent world events the US media intentionally ignore. Hell, the US media intentionally ignore USA events nowadays they're controlled by Conservative conglomerates.

From the sounds of it, I'd wager if you're looking for a cult member, try the mirror.

[Jackblue]

Less bias, their entire thing is anti-American anti-Israeli propaganda. Al Jazeera hosted a weekly religious program Religion and Life where the host Yusuf al-Qaradawi called for the genocide of the Jews. They also glossed over the historical arab slave trade https://www.jadaliyya.com/Details/38134 BBC interviewed a child narrator who was the son of a Hamas official for a Gaza documentary which they did not disclose.

[Jackblue]

The BBC likewise don't focus on discriminatory laws against Jews in the Middle East really at all.

[Opinion Owner]

@Jackblue That's not relevant when it comes to their overall reporting of events that TAKE PLACE, which is what I'm referencing. I don't give a flying fuck about their narrative, but AT LEAST they report the EVENTS. US news media doesn't even do that.

[Opinion Owner]

@Jackblue Like I said, I don't care about their narratives; I want to know what took place. I'll dig up the reasons if the event is important enough. Again, US news media outlets are failing to report both national and international events that in my opinion are important.

[Cormac995]

The answer is because there are a lot and I mean a lot of women that really do only want a green card. There are valid marriages yes but there are also a lot of cases of guys thinking they've built a life just to get dumped a year or two after they no longer have to worry about their card being revoked.

[Staximus]

It happens all the time, then the girl leaves once they know they won't get deported. I had a bunch of Chinese women barking up my tree on Facebook dating because they wanted to become citizens. I just told them I didn't have a job. They would disappear immediately with no further response after that hahaha

[OneViewpoint]

A large number of US citizens believe in "American Exceptionalism". I believe a large number of US citizens are exceptionally delusional and obnoxious. What we have allowed to define us is greed and war and toxic Christianity. That is hardly the high moral ground that justifies our preaching to everyone else.

[Jackblue]

Greed and war and toxic Christianity. Ok I will give you the toxic christianity part to some extent. If we are that greedy we certainly are bad at it, with us paying for the research costs of the rest of the world's healthcare so that they can set price controls on drugs which don't cover the real expenses. Our wars might that have something to do with first the Nazis wanting to enslave us in camps, then the soviets Chinese and their allies wanting to enslave us in camps, and then the radical Islamists trying to turn us into their "right hand possessions", you can claim they weren't a threat to us, but let's say once Hitler rearmed the allies had immediately went in and crushed him while he was weak and there was no holocaust. The world would now call Hitler a victim of British and French aggression.

[OneViewpoint]

@Jackblue,

Thanks for providing the evidence of what I was talking about.

[Jackblue]

Ah, well explain it to my unenlightened ears oh great left wing prophet.

[OneViewpoint]

@Jackblue ,

There's no point in explaining anything to a tree stump. You're "exceptional", remember.

[Tarifa]

Some women are desperate to get a better life, more so economically than emotionally, and some men will fall easily for the thought of finding in a foreign girl what they fail to find in a girl in their own country. That's a combination that will hardly ever work out. I've witnessed 2 of these and both ended up in nothing but heartache for one of the partners involved.

[Kelley1]

That is not a determining factor. A beautiful girl will not marry an average guy for a green card. However, if they click, she would marry a young good looking doctor.

[D_Bone_Steak]

The only reason I would marry a foreign national is to move the fuck out of America! I'm looking for my version of the green card lolz.

[DonaldDarko]

The problem isn't us thinking our country is special it's every illegal trying to sneak in that's the problem. Now we have to spend millions to get these leaches out of our home.

[Surely]

I believe that I heard several years ago that. That if a woman married an American man in order to come to this country. Then cries spousal abuse. The man is in hot water and the woman gets a free pass to stay in the UA’

[Pohjolan]

Well basement dwellers don't make it that far but in some places that are enough bad, some women are willing to take any opportunity to bail out.

Like imagine if you'd work long in a third world country mine with poor safety and your pussy was inspected every day by some dude with dirty hands while getting paid barely enough to manage.

You might also be willing to roll the dice with whatever single humanitarian aid worker that happens to come by.

[Shiprex]

Some poorer less safe countries where women aren't given opportunities may seek this path to escape from their home countries.

[Kaneki05]

Because they do? Same way I wish an America girl would marry me. It's a very known and wanted thing to marry for citizenship

[Levin]

I'd like an American woman to marry me, but not for citizenship. I know the UK is a shithole, but the US is also a shithole, in a different way. UK not that bad is it?

[Kaneki05]

@Levin My dude... our government ain't even pretending to not be a dictatorship anymore. The petition against digital IDs was massive compared to how little people even bother on other petitions yet they responded Yeah we're are doing it anyway.
Almost 3m for reference even 10,000 gets a response and that's typically a high point.

I'm one who wanted Labour to win cause I'm left and now they've hard titled me so much I miss Tory party and wish Trump the guy who I have no love for to come over and rule us.

America is so much better, and yes I wouldn't of said that before Labour got in but here we are. Though America has always had more freedom tbf but now the difference is becoming even larger.

[Levin]

Ah, you give these fucks too much power. As during covid, the tyrants will come and they will go. They're attempting to tighten the grip, but it's only out of desperation and fear. They know they are sinking.

The times, they are changing. And yes, well, I used to be left. Quite some time ago. But we've all had our eyes opened. I could see what was happening and knew Labour would be disastrous for the country. We already had a left wing globalist Tory government. And then the people, through their lack of education, voted for the 'other side' as the antidote, not realising they're a more extreme version of the already left wing Tories. There will be a correction, a hard correction. It had to happen this way. The people had to see how bad it would get. We're almost at the point of no return. But yes, you give these people too much power. You have power and agency over your life. You conditioned yourself to believe otherwise.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lZ01t93KpGs

[Kaneki05]

@Levin Oh I know hence this quote on my profile 'And remember this: the Imperial need for control is so desperate because it is so unnatural. Tyranny requires constant effort. It breaks, it leaks. Authority is brittle. Oppression is the mask of fear.'

I hope it gets pushed back and I hope we get an early election but that really ain't going to be because of me lol

[exitseven]

I know a guy that got some kind of mail order bride. She was pretty hot looking and he fell for her pretty fast. She really married him so she could , stay in America.

[chenyu]

I don't agree, because in this internet age everyone knows that the United States is not the best

[Jackblue]

If America isn't special than good, all the aid we have given foreign countries like you and your neighbors is paying off. Now we won't have floods of immigrants whose children vote for the wrong parties.

[dougeats]

Well I hope they know it's not for their looks if he's 60 and she's 20. You got to be naive not to know this

[Bklynbadboy12]

America is special you may not want to come here but there's millions of people that do. And I wouldn't marry anybody for a green card but there are plenty of people that do that. And why do you seem so angry about it

[red-lipstick-girl]

I'm not angry, but it makes me uncomfortable when men think like this.

[Bklynbadboy12]

Who cares what they think. You know your a good woman and you know what type of man you want in your life and you know it isn't them. Right?

[Sal_Monella]

In the world I live in, it happens too often.

[dwreborn]

Let um who really cares its better then other ways to get in

[Joshydavid25]

A lot of women do marry men for a green card.. And yes the U. S is still that special.. Which is why so many people want to migrate here..

[beefcakebradybatson]

WHITE American men may think it;black American men, not so much.

[Anonymous]

Some of them probably think so, but not all of them.

[Liyue]

The USCIS is very strict, but a small number of people still obtain residency through marriage. Such incidents make some American men wary of foreign women.

[Kingofkings1992]

What are you talking about, clueless? This happens literally all the time. Someone close to you must be feeding you lies. This is really funny 😆

[TonyMetal___86]

You're open minded for a turkish girl 😄
Not just another çoçuk...

[Jeff51]

If you think that then stay in the 3rd world. I'm staying here.

[FenixG45]

This problem happens in ALL G7 countries! It might happen more in America.

[FunkyMonkee]

Well, it's true!

[FateofOphelia]

That's what the girls want

[msc545]

Maybe pre-Trump, but certainly not now.

[Miristheiss]

Green cards?

Are those still a thing?

[Jennz6]

It happens too often

[Ariesman81]

Not sure who lied to you

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

It's not secret, most of them do that.

[chrissykerdock]

come again

[qwerty2469]

American men won't marry anyone for any reason

[Anonymous]

That made no sense.

[eagle1951]

you have that backwards.

[Anonymous]

Many certainly would.