I was born a loser, I didn't know till some times.. but what I felt before and realized now... no one gave me ever any credit... ?

[n8765]

And I tried after that to do a proper search.. to consider more points of view or even different angles.. but when I come back to this word.. to reality... it's all seemed even worse... me , was weirder, my informations opinions creating more problems.. and tbh I don t know what anymore to do

[aaron13547]

Life is what you make it... when you think today is going to suck thats all you see in everything. Your mind justifies what you think, that today was going to suck. We created the world we live in...

When you believe the opposite of everything you said life will give you good things. Only those good things dont feel good because your brain is trained to think life sucks, and your only right when you can prove that to yourself. I think you said that also, in a way. Its hard to make sense of what you say...

Your brain is a mess hence why you can't find anything you are looking for in there... you need to forget everything you think you know and start over with a positive attitude.

When life gives you lemons, make lemonade. It really is that simple. Lemons are a metaphor for negative thoughts and emotions. We have to make that negative stuff manifest in a positive way...

that is what i think life is all about. We are all born losers, its a heros journey to find your way out.

[n8765]

It's not like wow I'm so negative... it's just what I realised.. that realisation.. after all this time feeling is something wrong... just now I could name it... and I don't think it's about being negative... it's about what to do with the pattern which is repeating.. and hopefully you got which.. but if not I can repeat

[lightbulb27]

Time to turn to Jesus Christ as your lord and savior! Do it now, don't wait. Bible Gateway: Romans 10:9 https://biblehub.com/esv/romans/10.htm

And you start fresh, find a good church to start to absorb some positive spirit, which you are. Need more guidance, lmk, but that is THE answer and a great one.

You are not a loser. If you got to this age through a difficult world and survived, you are a winner. You just feel like a loser because you've been through what's hard. All that is training and conditioning for what is next.

With Christ, your weakness is turned to strength!

Welcome to humanity and salvation!

[n8765]

Hey I know all that, thank you but I have something different

[Nemesis2k7]

Self pity never works. Playing the victim never works either.

[n8765]

I know , I have this tendency.. but now I didn't meant that.. but I genuiely meant that frustration which came from observation of my patterns in life... and I wondered if someone had the same... just if they were born with that way.. sensing same things - the bad oatterns.. and trying to do things in corect wway , but things so often turning the opposite... that what I wanted to talk about , not about the pity, as if you get I didn't came for it, but for a concrete answer

[disgustingweebtrash]

I see you're from the UK being from here doesn't really help much. But no one is born a loser