Yep! Well said +1 (except I'm 16 and don't like bad boys, I prefer cute and sensitive guys)The same thing goes the other way as well, look at this: link
yes, like she said, there's a difference between a nice guy, and a passive/timid guy.
ok may I ask why some women if not most women chase after jerks and abusive men if they knew he was bad at beginning and why some women if not most women have sex with jerks and abusive men while some of us nice guys and good men is still a virgin and he waits till marriage like a decent person do I ask because I'm a 23 year old virgin male and I'm saving my virginity till marriage and I expect her to do the same and I'm still looking for a virgin girl/a virgin woman to date/marry who
waits till marriage like I am if you guys have advice where can I look for a virgin girl/a virgin saves herself for marriage like I am when I put myself out there thanks if not I understand
i think you nailed it. but a challenge...come on challenges are part of the "game" that is "played" before entering the relationship. If my gf/wife wants me to be a "challenge" then she is not for me
I'm shy and timid and generally afraid of girls because I think I look had and they will laugh just look at my profile pic and you will see why(I'm in the aeropostale shirt) awhat can I do?
@themastaplan I like to ask you do girls and women really love jerks who ignores them,do nothing for them, have sex with many girls and women yes I'm including cheating on her for no reason,abuse her hits her and call her fat ugly and other mean names,punch her,other abuse and mean stuff to do to girls and women I ask because I notice some crazy and stupid stuff if you know what I mean if you don't mind answer it or clear it up for me so I understand better and yes I'm being smarter then ever
themastaplan - Being a challenge is not about game playing. I find disagreements in a relationship come pretty natural and don't require games to occur. What I find unnatural is someone who thinks everything I say and do is great and exactly what they want. Sure, when you first date you usually get along fantastically but at some point you have that first disagreement.
DragonLord - Hey, we like what we like and most people don't realize the depth of someone's issues or jerkiness right off. Most jerks are pretty good at hiding how ridiculous they are for a bit and are able to take advantage of the fact that we don't usually want to think the worst of people. Most women do not chase after jerks. You mixed in abstinence until marriage, and that just means you are in a minority, but you know that. Stick with your beliefs and wait for the right girl for you.
i think I agree with you because she had sex with the bad boy yes she gave her virginity to the bad boy mean while some of us decent men do wait till marriage may I ask what's up with that and may I ask as well do you know where can I find a virgin girl/a virgin woman who waits till marriage I ask because I'm saving my virginity till marriage and I expect her to do the same and yes I'm an 23 year old virgin male if you know where can I look when I put myself out there thanks if not I understand
I know, it sounds impossible. But I exist so there has to be others out thereLOL "but I exist" lol one of the few here! :)
may I ask why they choose to date jerks and abusive men when she knew he was bad from beginning and gave him sex to and give him her virginity as well sorry but my views on sex is I don't believe in sex before marriage I believe sex should be saved when you both are married and you two loved each other if my view is old fashion I understand since I'm a virgin male and wait till marriage and I'm 23 and I'm still looking for a virgin girl/a virgin woman who waits till marriage like I am
I honestly have no idea why girls date bad boys, my best and only guess is that it's the challenge of getting the bad boy to turn good (which is almost as impossible as finding a girl that doesn't like drama).
excuse me I shouldn't say "girls are dumb" I'll change it to "a majority of girls aren't as smart as you may think"sorry ladies!
thanks for answering my question I'm just confuse because she overlooks a nice guy/a good man then when she is mistreated and she crys about it when it's her fault her mess her responsibility for what she did to herself thanks for clearing that up for me
don't worry I'm not a jerk it's been crazy and stupid stuff going on and I'm still looking for a virgin who waits till marriage like I am sorry about my language but I'm a nice good guy and I'm damn proud of it if she refuse to date me because I wait till marriage and/or I'm a nice good guy since some girls and some women turn down a guy because he is nice/too nice fine let her be that way and she will never get me as soon as she rejects me I'm walking away I'm not going to play her stupid games
games = drama = emotional confusion...step away! good man!
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see...this girl...this is the kind of girl I'm talking about...the kind of girl that I want, the kind of girl the QA wants...i wish there were more women like you! I can guarentee you being happy for the rest of your life once you find that person - you def have your head on straight!
You'll find one don't worry, there are more of us about! :) Plenty of women are looking for nice guys like you so don't give up, she'll definitely come along :)
Thank you by the way lol :) that was nice of you to say. You always sound like you've got a good head on your shoulders.
agreed...once the "women" realize what is going on lol
*shakes your hand*Ill see ya when hell freezes over good sir.
how soon are you talking about are you talking about if you see a girl on the street and if you like her just tell her right there and risk getting slap by her I ask how soon should you tell her because I've heard from different sources don't tell her too soon so the question again is how soon should you tell her before she put you in the friend zone are you talking about
and if you want please read my question I ask Ezmotts if you want to answer my questions I ask him if you want to answer it and if you don't want to I understand
Nooo, you don't say it, you let her know through body language and flirting. Banter. Flirting. And yeah, let her know ASAP.
OK I'm just wondering what you meant thanks for helping me and be a little bit more specific so I know what you meant in your comment so I be more prepare to put myself out there dating again so thanks again
and I've read somewhere online girls and women love guys who are mysterious is it true or that's a lie I'm just trying to improve myself yes I'm including reading different stuff and improve my game and myself and I watch stuff online to improve myself like on YouTube and howcast websites unless you got a better idea
Go to amazon and search "How to Succeed with Women." That book will tell you everything you need to know.
OK thanks when I can I will I'm using different resources and being smart and steps ahead can you answer the other question if you don't mind and my other question is link if you don't want to I understand some women is using people and mostly men for money so read my question carefully then please answer it if you want to and if you don't want to I understand
Why is that
Because I'm stupid and I'll learn my lesson one day :\
How to not be boring?
how soon should you tell a girl/a woman you like/love her before she put you in the friend zone I ask because I've heard from different sources that you can't tell her too soon so my question again is how soon should you tell a girl/a woman you like/love her and my other question is do girls/and women like guys who waits till marriage because I am waiting till marriage and yes I'm 23 year old virgin male any advice where can I look who waits till marriage like I am thanks if not I understand
lmao...if I could video tape my life and show you how WRONG you are...HAHAHAHHA
I know a lot of nice guys who have girlfriends. I believe that "Girls don't like nice guys" is just some bs guys spew as an exscuse as to why they are single and for whatever reason can't seem to attract a girl strongly enough for her to want him to be her man. Don't be an idiot. A girl isn't going to say "I don't want him, he's nice! He'll treat me well so I don't want him." There must be something about you, as an INDIVIDUAL, that makes girls not so attracted to you romantically.
Like Tamikaze said, "nice guy" is a vague wordRead mine and her answers
How to not be nice?
i wouldn't know because I am like this too, except I don't ask or complain why do nice-guys finish last because I already know why, I just don't know how to become, or to overcome "nice-guy syndrome", because nice-guys finish last because they are seen, viewed as people-pleasers, they try to seek approval from others, let people take advantage of them