Why do many modern women seem to distance themselves from femininity?

[WilliamStormsReturn]

They wanna disengage/deny anything related to feminine or "being girl"

Not all of them are relatable to this, I know some women love being feminine, but most hate it or don't talk about it in the modern world. I'm confused, when I was little and preteen women/ girls women seemed to love there gender identity and talk about how awesome it is to be a girl and how smart girls are, now they just barely talk about that and only in shallow ways.

[stalk-stopper]

Nobody should purposely try to resemble a gender. And a note on the modern issue: Kids naturally choose their behaviors and they should be left the hell alone, do not brainwash them with lgbtq, just let them grow at their pace.

But. If it is faked femininity, wouldn't that disgust you? For sure artificial fake masculinity feels like the cringiest thing i can do and i mostly romantically attracted super repressed women and was attracted to unavailable women when i tried to be a certain way using the intellect, because feelings listen to the body, not the logic.

With that out of the way, are you saying women become less feminine in outer expression as they sexually mature? Perhaps it's as simple as that. Sexuality becomes their gender expression. Why would they need a HelloKitty logo when they can bear children to feel like a woman instead?

[WilliamStormsReturn]

"Resembling a Gender" I'm not talking about the assimilation, I'm talking about the person and spiritual relation to the "sex"

Like when you're growing up as boy you wanna be a big strong hero and when you're growing up as a female to enjoy nuanced, social themes in your music.

[WilliamStormsReturn]

I don't want "neoconservative feminity" I want women to be themselves and be honest about there connection to femininity?

[DonaldDarko]

I think they realised that it means being a walking uterus and not good for much beyond reproduction. Its the same with masculinity too. It doesn't make you heroic it means you're contolled by your ball sack. People just learned more and they want to be something besides walking genitals. Thus is why we need artificial wombs and AI parents. This is not some fad or cultural quirk it's probably evolution we're looking at.

[MissSunshine2]

I think it’s that there’s less time to be feminine, when juggling families and full time careers these days, so we just forget.

[WilliamStormsReturn]

It's not an "act" buddy, its a spiritual or existential flow. That stuff is a distraction from womanhood.

[MissSunshine2]

Maybe so. There is more pressure on women to be more like traditional men today, so maybe we give in to that a bit.

[WilliamStormsReturn]

And that's the problem? Women to be what u said, and men to be weaker and softer.

[jahaims]

Brainwashing campaign to get more workers and to spend less time as a family so the population is easier to manipulate

[strateguy632]

due to peer pressure.

[beenherebefore]

Because of the feminism movement.

[beenherebefore]

Apologies I meant feminist movement.