Does seeing Black men with white women bother you?

Question

Does it bother you to imagine a Black man's rough hands gliding over a white woman's soft, milk-like skin?

Hypergamous racism

In rage-bait or infidelity content meant to provoke people, the woman is often portrayed as cheating with a Black man because it's understood that this creates a stronger rhetorical impact.

In reality, hypergamy does exist. Maybe it doesn't apply to you women personally, but it exists in society. People are uncomfortable with a man from a lower social class being in a relationship with a woman from a higher social class.

Even if equal rights are granted, society still tends to view Black people as belonging to a lower social class and white people as belonging to a higher one.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I don’t care. You can date who you want to date. Love is love. If an attractive white woman has a thing for black guys then that’s her choice. I say that as a straight white man who leans conservative too.

But here is where I have an issue. Lots of western woke white women are dating and even marrying black and now Muslim men to JUST to “defy” white men. Not because they are really even attracted to black / Muslim men. But they are addicted to suicidal empathic wokeness like heroin. I even saw a Huffington Post article from a woke white woman saying “I escaped colonialism and stopped dating white men”.

But reality is slamming into someone of these suicidally asinine white women when they date / marry Muslim men in other countries.

https://www.irishtimes.com/crime-law/2026/07/13/jamey-carney-murder-gardai-investigate-claims-boyfriend-ahmad-al-saqar-arrested-in-jordan/

Now do I think every black and / or Muslim man is violent, abusive and oppressive to women? Absolutely not. But there islam would a resounding doubt is the most oppressive society to women on planet earth. And these deranged woke white women are singing up for slavery (or even signing their own death certificate in some cases) when they seek that out. Just because they have so insanely brainwashed to the point of believing modern time white men or all “evil”.

For my truly decent black and / or Muslim brothers out there. Congrat. Feel free to enjoy it. And if you are decent guy I’m actually glad you got more opportunity to meet a white woman (and I know a lot of you want that). True love is color blind.

For the violent dbag black and / or Muslim guys out there…. well also congrats. You are the beneficiary of the brainwashed and most stupid people in the world: woke white women. I actually WANT you to beat the living sh*t out of these white women you date. Please kick their heads in because it’s what they signed up for. They deserve every inch of it.

Long term white women circle back to white guys again though. And ironically some of them might even be (secretly) MORE into white guys to defy the defiance.

Levin · Accepted Answer

Part of me wants to psychoanalyse everything.

Do white women have internalised white guilt or shame because they are conditioned to feel that way. Would this make them more inclined to date black men.

Is dating a white woman a way of empowering himself, a way of cleansing alleged historical injustices and inferiorities.

Is European society falling apart at the seams, in a period of moral, and every sense, disintegration and decay.

I do admit there is this very attractive girl who has a social media, and I don't really understand why she is with the guy she is with. She's like a 9.5, he's like a 6 at best. Maybe that's just the guy she has chosen rather than the fact that he's black.

Then we also have to factor in the pernicious marketing in the UK at least, but no doubt in every European self-loathing country, that tries to project a social image of the UK already being highly and irrevocably ethnically diverse. There was a study done by Channel 4 (a left wing news organisation in the UK) showing that blacks made up 4% of the population, but appear in 50% of adverts).

I guess to each their own.

As the English civil war poster said (1646 for the historically illiterate); a brief description of the ridiculous fashions of these distracted times!

JennaWillow · Accepted Answer

In a vacuum it doesn't bother me, if both are good people then who cares

I don't like the fetishization of race or the people that specifically date outside of their own just because it gives them a rush though, and I think by and large it'd be better for people to stick to their own

Also the way this whole post is phrased, feels quite bait lmao

choco-latte · Accepted Answer

No I could care less about a stranger’s personal life. In fact, I think two honest people who love each other should be together. As long as they’re both adults and know what they’re doing, that’s their right.

Lliam · Answer

No. Not all black guys have thug/ghetto mentality. I know black men who are educated, successful, and really great guys. They are the same as you and me. Some people judge others by their character, not their race.

Aside from that, some women like dark-skinned dudes just like some guys prefer pale-skinned women.

It doesn't bother me if white dudes get into loving relationships with nice black women, either. As long as they are happy, who cares? I don't. But then again, I'm not racist and I don't automatically stereotype people.
I know mixed race couples and it doesn't bother me a bit.

Anonymous · Answer

There's a lot of white conservative guys that have that have cuckold fetish where the black guy is the bull and the white guy is cuckold and they think about things similar to what you post.

I am not saying you have it i don't know if you're white or not.

But i know black guys that work in my consultant firm and there have been a few white couples that would ask a few of my black employees to be a bull for them. A lot of those white dudes were high-powered conservative chruch every Sunday men.

It's why donald trump and the converserative are okay with deporting Mexicans and won't send the diaspora back to Africa.

They're all weirdos to me, but I know its not all white guys you don't need to tell me that. It's mostly the ones that obess over race like the Chud the builder type of guys.

lightbulb27 · Answer

Usually not if i think they are tresting them well. If i see abuse then it does. We lnow some people will take out their emotional problems and in others and that would be a trigger.

but it flips as well that the woman may be abusove to the man, so i may have empathy for the man.

Zack-Bann · Answer

It doesn’t bother me as it’s none of my business.

Do I think it’s a good idea?
Who can say.

Statistically it’s a horrible bet.

But people rarely use statistics to make choices otherwise no one would do anything.

But I do find it pathetic when it’s a girl with daddy issues trying to spite her racist father.
And then the black guy just takes full advantage knowing that he’s being objectified.
It’s toxic on all fronts.

Anonymous · Answer

it doesn't necessary bother me just maybe its becoming too common , not against people dating people of other cultures or such just think that maybe its becoming too much of a thing and that people are naturally more attracted to people like themselves so it seems weird to me that so many white women are supposedly no longer attracted to white men. thats just my thoughs

Jackblue · Answer

It makes me jealous some of the time, but your whole status thing is inaccurate, black men also don't like seeing black women with other races. I don't get angry about it I just accept it as decent people should. Women have the right to date whomever they want.

Kvass · Answer

I don't care about other people's relationships, but I find it irritating when black men fetichize themselves just because a few monkeysexuals are into them

HawkPerception · Answer

I don't care. Everyone is allowed to have whatever preference they want. That being said, I do assume when a white girl ends up with a black dude, it's usually for the D. I'm sure that's not always the case, but I can't help but have that stereotype.

Anonymous · Answer

Honestly, yeah. A French girl kissed a Congo guy in "Inglorious Bastards", I started cursing and spitting at the TV.

And just this morning, an Argentine girl made a post talking about how her husband is a N worder. I spit at my phone.

How do these women have no shame or self respect? I consider them race traitors

TonyMetal___1986 · Answer

Nope ofc not, because i see everyone the same, black people are humans too 🤷🏻‍♂️
So it's about preference, if the person likes someone with a different color, just like some people prefer blondes over brunettes or vice versa... etc

Anonymous · Answer

Yes. My wife used to date a lot of black guys. She confirmed the penis duze difference. I found vids of her on her cloud of her being with black men, she clearly enjoyed them more than me. I confess that I've jerked off to them.

Tamera952 · Answer

No, and why would it? Aside from the reasons you laid out. I spend 0.0% of time ever thinking about this.

AviatorTom · Answer

Why should that bother me? Underneath the skin color, we are all the same. Same red blood. Same internal organs. Same. Same. Same. All humans.

Pretendingtobesweet · Answer

I thought of them they are burned by their parents when they were growing up and bitter

OneViewpoint · Answer

Nope, if they're happy, I'm happy. Life is short.

canamlusciouslad73 · Answer

Handsome Bradys ( older black men with cover boy good looks such as Yours Truly) and Lady Blossoms ( buxom blondes) are the world's most telegenic couples !!!

In_Trance · Answer

This is a Jewish psyop.  You never see black guys with Orthodox Jewish women.  Guess why?

Taranis_Thunor · Answer

Yeah cause those women are mudsharks that will never produce little viking warriors like I was when I was a baby.

RareBreedOfMan · Answer

I support interracial dating, My last ex was black, and I still love her, and I'm White guy.

MrChinaski · Answer

And the medal for the World's Smallest and Most Transparent Bikini goes to...

LC75LC71 · Answer

The fuck is hypergamy? Sounds like when super poly grip doesn't adhere to the false teeth of granny. She may have blacked a few decades ago..

loveslongnails · Answer

As usual, I don't care who you choose to be with or fuck. It's not my business.

BadInfluence05 · Answer

No people who do must of lost something to that race.

Anonymous · Answer

No and it’s none of my business who other people choose to date.

Anonymous · Answer

Seeing anyone that isn't Black, man or woman with a Black person bothers me.

Anonymous · Answer

Nope, leaves more black women free for little ol' me.😆

Anonymous · Answer

Why does Black get capitalized but not White in your post?

Staximus · Answer

You’re where, you tell me

FrodoSkywalker007 · Answer

It's a statistical rarity and I don't care

Brandi555 · Answer

It’s none of my business

Stormzy001 · Answer

not at all absolutely

Kingofkings1992 · Answer

Lol, no. Gtfoh troll

lilBigPotato · Answer

Nope 🤷‍♀️

jazzy34 · Answer

Not at all.

Agape93 · Answer

I dont give a fuck

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