Would you rather live in a country, state, etc where are two faced and fake in exaggerate forms or semi fake/mostly blunt?

For example Japan, and South Korea is known to be fake as hell and two faced as hell. People literally all act the same because they feel pressured. The South and Midwest of the United States people are fake as hell and two faced. They don't like you yet invite you over to barbecues, etc. California where I live there is a lot of it too but it is not exaggerated like these places and there is no pressure to be a certain way. Also New York is very blunt and other countries have majority populations like that.

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I love living in California born and raised. Always lived here.
Would you rather live in a country, state, etc where are two faced and fake in exaggerate forms or semi fake/mostly blunt?
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