Is it ideal to bring a concealed weapon with you on a date?

[Phunk_Fenomenon]

I never dated anyone in my life and one of the main reasons why is because I have trust issues. I been through a lot of hell when I was a kid that my trauma now prevents me from trusting strangers.

since obviously every date will be a stranger to you at first I always had paranoia that what if that person you're dating lives a double life and has ulterior motive? is God forbid this was the case then how will I be able to defend myself?

lets not forget that the bimbo who almost won the title as my first girlfriend also makes up part of the trauma I been forced to endure. this bitch played me at the last moment and we ended up burning the bridge after we departed. it got so ugly between the two of us that she even tried to send some gangsters after me.

Yes

No

[Tamera952]

What in the actual fuck? Are you kidding me? Why would you ever think bringing a concealed weapon was appropriate on a date? What kind of trauma are you referencing that would make that sound like something you need to do? (In case you need to shoot her?) ….
And then this doozy stands out to me; “won the title as my first girlfriend” …this reads a bit self centered and grandiose in case you didn’t know.
I’m sorry your relationship didn’t work out, and ended badly, but the prospect of paranoia and someone being disingenuous, are not something that can be resolved with a firearm.

Would you like to share some more about what happene to you?

[Phunk_Fenomenon]

like I already told a few folks here. look up Aileen Wuornos and Jodi Arias when you have a chance and you will get your answer.

to make the long story about the one who almost became my first girlfriend short lets just leave it at when we officially x each other out of our lives she tried to send some gangbangers after me. this was in 2005 when MySpace was the social media king. these motherfuckers literally flood my page with death treats.

hopefully that will change your mind about it sounding "self centered and grandiose" to you

[Phunk_Fenomenon]

threats*

[Agape93]

Sure. I do.

[shish_kebab]

There's some pretty dumb people replying to this. If you have a conceal permit then bring it whenever you want. How are you supposed to know who the whack jobs are out there. Are you only supposed to being it when you're planning a date with a crazy psycho bitch?

[Phunk_Fenomenon]

thank you for understanding. a lot of people really are stuck in that Disney princess fairytale thinking that women or just any date in general could be danger

[shish_kebab]

All humans can be dangerous. I'd say they're the most dangerous animal in the animal Kingdom.

[Phunk_Fenomenon]

I met to say can't* instead of could.

though yea I highly doubt that Ailen Wuornos and Jodi Arias are the only cases that ever happen. pretty sure there are far more is just that they go unnoticed thanks to all the free passes women get.

[shish_kebab]

Agreed. Aren't you amazed at how many idiots are defending that whack job mother who killed her kids?

[Phunk_Fenomenon]

exactly, I found out one of those same exact idiots killed their only 2 year old child after she found out the lost the trial.

if they are willing to do that to their own child then I dont even want to know what they would do to a stranger.

[shish_kebab]

Exactly

[shish_kebab]

Thanks for the MHO

[ChiTown33]

Maybe if you feel she gives you gun nut vibes.

I don't know man, i was raised on guns. But i have little to no interest in them. But you do you.

https://www.youtube.com/embed/8Lr79WuPwis

[loveslongnails]

For those people living in Memphis, St. Louis or Detroit, maybe carrying a taser is standard equipment and has nothing to do with anything other than protection?

That said, it may or may not be a deal breaker for your date, so they deserve to know if you're going to insist on carrying it. I think a better option is to leave it behind for date #1 and get around to discussing it if there's going to be a date #2.

[NathanDavis]

if you're thinking of bringing a loaded gun to your fist date... willing and ready to shoot your date "just in case"

maybe you should go therapy instead...

leave the gun home, as well...

[Phunk_Fenomenon]

I'm not gonna be ready unless she gives me a concrete reason to

[NathanDavis]

[Phunk_Fenomenon]

"Oh Lord"

yeah that's what you will scream the day life sends an Aileen Wuornos or a Jodi Arias your way

[Sevenpointfive]

. .

[lilBigPotato]

That would be a hard red flag for me if I notice. You might want to get professional help.

[Phunk_Fenomenon]

you might want to do some research on Aileen Wuornos and Jodi Arias whenever you get a chance to do so

[Just_Ken]

Was on a date with a girl who had a handgun in her purse. She a cop.

[DryGermanGuy]

You are the definition of "damaged goods". Get professional help, man.

[Phunk_Fenomenon]

and you need to drop the Disney princess way of thinking and start dating more often, hopefully you won't find out the hard way if God forbid life decides to send you an Aileen Wuornos your way

[DryGermanGuy]

Again, get professional help, this is just insane behaviour, even for your fucked-up country. As for mine - we only have ~250 murders a year, 95% are committed by men, and the few women involved are usually in the drug and drinker scene. This is nothing to worry about, just as people don't have to worry about a meteorite hitting them on the head.

[Phunk_Fenomenon]

then if you dont live in my country then keep your fucking opinions to yourself. a sheep does not get to tell the wolf that he is "insane" for having fangs.

"get professional help, this is just insane behaviour,"

last time I checked you are not a therapist or anyone with a license to be telling me what I need help on.

" As for mine - we only have ~250 murders a year,"

you forgot to the other 25,000 that are caused by the African and Arabian refugees that you all decided to pour in your country and the rest of Europe in mass

[Phunk_Fenomenon]

lets not forget that my post had nothing to do with who's country is better than who's but apparently you have to feel morally superior somehow huh?

[DryGermanGuy]

You can continue being the sad and angry little man that you are, doesn't bother me one bit. And remember you, tried to bring in countries by blabbing about Disney whatever, without having any clue of course, how safe it is in Europe. And lastly, it's not like the Americans here are giving you standing ovations for your paranoid ideas. Maybe one day we will see your mug on the evening news?

[Phunk_Fenomenon]

" And remember you, tried to bring in countries by blabbing about Disney whatever,"

dude how the fuck is talking about DIsney contributes to talking about other people's country? talk about "professional help" are you mentally challenged?

"without having any clue of course, how safe it is in Europe."

neither do I give a fuck, I care about the country I live in. unlike you and your other compatriot who just like you has a track record in this site for worrying and whining about America more than his own life.

"Maybe one day we will see your mug on the evening news?"

dont worry, I'm not an African or Arabian refugee. therefore you will never see a mugshot of me in your country.

[Pterodon]

I bring one but carrying everywhere is normal for me

[msc545]

You are another person who should stay away from other people before you get yourself into some serious trouble.

[exitseven]

Yes, you should not have unprotected sex.

[Billlewis]

Ideal? I doubt it.

[strateguy632]

no just a tazer.

[jshm2]

LOL, it's best you not date at all, sunny.

[rgb008]

I don’t think so.

[Cidknee]

If you need to sure.