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Ben Wyatt from Parks and Rec or Aragorn from Lord of The Rings. Same energy.
30s, knows who he is, has boundaries, sees my lowest and doesn't use it as excuse to be worst, he makes me want to be best.
He doesn't need me to lower my value so he can look superior.
He doesn't need me to be blind, codependent, clingy, or in high school to stay.
He doesn't need me to be someone else just to get his approval, cause marriage means both people choosing, not just 1 person who does that and that's what makes me want to change to be best.
He can leave, can see, can say no and still chooses to stay.
That's marriage to me.
If I had to marry one fictional character, I would marry that dude from Vikings which streams on Netflix, I love anything fantasy and deals with Vikings. Ragnar the main character of Vikings, I love a beefy man, not just that He is smart, curious, ambitious, and not without his flaws. He can have times of great despair, impulsivity, doubt, and who he is, the man and the legend he becomes. I love how he is so in love with his family and his wife. I want someone who can be that invested into me and my children.
Jane Eyre or one of the Bennet sisters from Pride and Prejudice, from novels.
Movies? That is a tough one. Margo from Lars and the Real Girl. I do not even know about her. A lot of unknowns. Most characters in movies are not marriage worthy.
Oh... ADRIAN! from Rocky.
Aurora (Sleeping Beauty), once I had dispatched her nemesis.
She's blonde, fair and beautiful. She has a great singing voice. The forest creatures love her. And she is a princess.
Lara Croft is a good pick.
She’s physically and mentally appealing.
Plus filthy rich so our kids will want for nothing.
A care bear or Sesame Street puppet. They might not be hot but there will be no fighting or anger.
Lagertha from vikings. That is the kind of woman I want being the mother of my kids.
Harry potter! Have a kid- a witch! If i were a gal. As a guy i need hermione or luna!
Sue Heck from the middle.
Vannesa in smart people
Clarke in Me without you
Ivy in the village
Padme in starwars
Gloria in wedding crashers
You were asked to marry ONE and have a kid. You listed 6.
• Sue Heck = won't judge your low
• Vanessa = needs validation from older guy
• Clarke = codependent, never leaves even when you treat her worst
• Ivy = blind, can't see how low you are, literally blind.
• Gloria = clingy, needy, sticks to you no matter what
• Padme = loves you despite becoming a monster, this is the worst level.
All 6 have one thing in common, they can't leave, can't see, or can't say no even if 2 of them are kids. All lead to benefits your ego.
So, question isn't who you want to marry.
Question is what do you need a girl to not do, so you can stay as you are?
We already have boundaries, it's called age. You just pissed all over yours.
Wanting to be loved even in your lowest is human.
Needing someone who is blind, codependent, clingy, or in high school to love you in your lowest so you don't have to change that's not love, that's hiding.
If you need 6 girls who will love you unconditionally because you can't commit to one, who is actually unconditional here?
That's not marriage, that's you.
@rose_noire Hmm, way to take a silly question and make it personal.
@SixFootSexy Hmm, way to take 6 girls who can't leave, can't see, can't say no and call it just a silly question.
It was personal the moment he listed them.
I didn't make it personal, I just read the pattern.
@rose_noire Your AI slop bores me.
@SixFootSexy You weren't bored, you were clocked.
Boredom is just what happens when you can't refute the pattern, so you attack the format.
If you were actually bored, you wouldn't have come back twice.
@rose_noire You are are obviously the morally and intellectually superior one here. I cede this one to you, FullKarenBot.
@SixFootSexy Let's talk about your character then, not his.
I read a pattern, you say "don't make it personal".
I read it again, you say "AI slop bores me".
I clock you, you say "morally superior, FullKarenBot" and fake cede.
You never once talked about the 6 girls.
You only tried to make me shut up for naming the pattern.
You didn't cede because you're superior, you ceded because name calling is the only argument you had left.
That's your class.
Not superior, just exposed when you have nothing left to say.
@rose_noire sounds like all these women are human with flaws but also physically attractive as are their personalities.
@Anon -- Exactly, human with flaws. That was my point.
The question is which flaws you need them to have so you don't have to look at yours.
Blind, clingy, codependent, can't leave, can't say no.
Attractive doesn't erase the pattern. It explains it.
But noted. Be well.
@rose_noire the pattern is one you have imagined
@Anon -- If I imagined it, why did you need 6 who can't leave, can't see, can't say no, instead of 1 who can?
Imagined patterns don't come with 6 receipts. Yours did.
@rose_noire in your mind. Each woman is actually very strong, intelligent, loyal and very physically attractive.
@Anon-- In my mind? You wrote 6.
If they're that strong, intelligent, loyal why do you need 6 who can't leave instead of 1 who can leave and still chooses to stay?
Strong doesn't need to be blind, clingy, or unable to say no to stay.
That's not strength. That's a leash.
@rose_noire because they are attractive characters to me.
@Anon -- Exactly. Attractive to you. That's what I was reading, which traits you find attractive.
Blind, clingy, codependent, can't leave, can't see, can't say no. That's the receipt.
Because they are attractive to you, that's the honest thing you said, and I respect that.
But that's not strong, intelligent, loyal. That's a leash.
You don't need someone who has to have lower value and be blind to stay loyal, just to feel wanted, loved, and accepted.
You are enough. You are precious and you deserve to be treated and loved in a right and respectful way, with a right woman that was made for you.
I wasn't attacking you. I was reading the pattern you wrote.
You don't need 6 who can't leave to feel safe.
You can want 1 who CAN leave, CAN see, CAN say no and still chooses to stay and you can be okay, feeling enough when she does.
You are better than this. I believe you, and I always did.
Be well for real this time.
@rose_noire you are bitter because these women are thin and attractive.
@Anon -- Let me teach you your own characters, then you can be well.
Thin and attractive is not a character.
Blind, clingy, can't leave, can't see, can't say no, codependent , that's not a character. That's a leash.
Character is what she DOES when she CAN leave, CAN see, CAN say no.
Does she stay? Does she choose you? Does she call you out when you're wrong? That's strong, intelligent, loyal.
You didn't write that. You wrote 6 who can't. So they never get to choose you. They have to stay. That's not loyalty. That's captivity you find attractive because it makes you feel wanted, loved, accepted without having to be enough on your own.
You said "attractive characters to me" exactly. You are attracted to the leash, not the character.
And "you are bitter because they are thin and attractive" no. I never said thin is not attractive. I said thin + blind + can't leave is not strength. It's your safety net.
A strong, intelligent, loyal, thin, attractive woman who CAN leave, CAN see, CAN say no and still chooses you every day even when she doesn't have to, that's terrifying for you.
Because then you'd have to actually be enough, not just be the only option left for someone who can't leave.
That's why you need 6, not 1. One who can leave can also reject you. Six who can't leave never can.
That's the pattern. Not imagined. Written by you. 6 receipts.
You don't need 6 who can't leave to feel lovable.
You are enough. You are precious.
You deserve to be loved in a right and respectful way by one right woman who CAN leave and still chooses to stay and you deserve to be a man who can handle being chosen, not just needed because she can't leave.
I wasn't bitter. I was reading and I was rooting for you to be better than a leash.
@rose_noire so weve established that you upset because they are pretty and thin.
@Anon -- No, we've established that you need pretty and thin to also be blind, clingy, and unable to leave to feel attractive.
Pretty is not the problem. You needing all those traits to feel secure and desired to cover your fear of rejection inside is.
Because a woman who CAN choose to stay can also choose to reject you. That's scary for you. That's why you need 6, not 1.
You are not a shallow person, so don't act like it. Don't attract people by your mask, but by your quality.
So even if they reject you, it's not because you are lacking. It's because you are more than enough, not because you need them to be lower beneath you.
What you need isn't someone to stay as a prisoner of your love so you feel settled.
Be well.
@rose_noire so you mad that they pretty.
@Anon -- No. I'm not mad they're pretty.
I'm saying you need pretty to ALSO be blind, clingy, and unable to leave to feel safe.
That's not on pretty. That's on your fear.
Pretty is not the flex.
Needing 6 who can't leave to feel chosen is.
@rose_noire yeah they pretty and you can't handle it.
@Anon -- Yeah, they pretty. I can handle pretty.
Can YOU handle pretty who CAN leave and still has to CHOOSE you every day?
That's the part you can't handle. That's why you need 6 who can't.
@rose_noire so mad.
@Anon -- Not mad. Just done.
You wrote six who can't leave, I read fear of being left. Be well.
@rose_noire you seem fixated on the prettiness of these ladies.
@Anon -- I'm not fixated on pretty. You are.
You wrote pretty + thin twice.
I'm fixated on why pretty has to also be blind, clingy, and unable to leave.
That's your fixation, not mine.
@Anon -- I'm not angry with you. Honestly, I feel sorry for you.
You keep debating me just to look like you won over me, but you missed the whole lesson I was trying to teach you.
What you want is to win the debate. You don't want to learn. That's why you're stuck in the same loop again and again.
I know you're not a shallow person. I've always believed you're better than this.
But you're the one who chooses to stay like this. You don't realize you're downgrading yourself instead of building your value.
Real change starts when you're honest and real with yourself.
Self reflect and realize what you have to fix within yourself, and take real action to make it right not by giving excuses and blaming others.
You're not a coward.
You're not a loser.
You're a winner and you're a fighter.
I know you can do it if you want to.
The only person who can make that real change is not me or others, but you.
So ask yourself, till when do you want to keep being like this?
Aren't you tired of fooling yourself over and over when you already know the truth?
I want you to be happy and see you become better because I do believe if you're willing to learn and change sincerely, your life will have a real positive breakthrough.
@rose_noire men are attracted to pretty women, you just got to accept it
@Anon -- Accept it? i did, that's why i said take the cheap pretty.
Real men are attracted to value, not just pretty that can't leave.
@rose_noire so you dislike pretty women then.
@Anon -- The most exhausting thing is not arguing with a fool, but with someone who only lives to win an argument.
From the beginning, the core issue was never about pretty. Not about those 6 girls. Not about who can't leave who.
The core issue was one thing: honesty.
A question that always needed your honesty, but you always twisted it into a competition for your ego.
You live behind a mask. The center of your world is only you. What benefits you, what pleasures you, what satisfies your ego.
Your world is small because everything has to come back to you.
That's why you need "cheap pretty that is blind and can't leave" because someone with real value would never stay with an ego like that.
You want to win this argument that badly. I give you that win, because the truth already hit you the hardest, but you are the one who keeps living in denial and rejection.
That's why you never have the real courage to get out of your wall and take off your mask.
Because being real means you have to be honest and responsible and make a real change.
That's not what you want. What you want is the easy way but hoping for the best outcome. It's never going to happen.
I live with honesty, values, and real growth.
I don't need to win an argument, I never get attracted to chase empty and cheap things that add no value. That's what you got wrong about me.
And also, that's why we will never meet. We speak two different languages.
My time, my value, and my peace are too precious to waste trying to convince someone who never wanted to understand, just focusing on feeding his ego.
So please, take all that cheap pretty. I'm done. Let life teach you the lesson itself. Be well.
@rose_noire yeah I like pretty women.
Adrian from “Rocky”, the greatest love story of my lifetime.
Does Mary Ann from Gilligan's Island count as fictional?
Xenomorph, on earth. Laissez les bon temps rouler.
Enjoy
That pink female Autobot.
Oh FICTIONAL. So doesn't have to be a cartoon.
Maybe Jeniffer Lopez's character from Parker. She's loyal and can keep a secret.
Or the girl from "Living Daylights", if she grew her hair long and dyed it black
Probably Emma Peel. She's tall and British, like my own sweet wife.
Wow? Um Jessica Rabbit I like her paddy cakes!
Jessica Rabbit or wonder woman
Its funny that you said that. There is this artist I follow their fan work drawings are all diana and Kal El. And I love them
The girl Mariette in
Darling Buds of May
Played by Katherine Zeta Jones 🙂
The mermaid from Beach blanket bingo.
Kelly Severide.
Batman/Bruce Wayne.
Spiderman.
Superman
Prince Eric
snow white