What are your thoughts about women starting families by themselves?

[Anonymous]

There has been an increase in the number of women in their late 30s to early 40s having babies on their own after years of being unable to find a man they want. Rather than waiting for a man to make their dreams come true, they made it come true themselves.

[Kelley1]

All women can find men who will marry them, but not the men they want.

[Kelley1]

Since men fuck down for sex but marry equals, having children by themselves allows women to choose to get pregnant by men far superior to the men they can marry. Sometimes, even wives have babies with men superior to their husbands. Regardless, whether married or single, getting pregnant by men with superior genes improves the human race, and that is a good thing.

[Asker]

I'd rather be single mom than to raise a child with a useless father

[Asker]

This answer shows you actually have real world experience.

[duntoldya]

If you don’t pick shitty men you done have useless fathers.

[Asker]

@duntoldya

Some women can't tell if a man will be a good or bad father

[duntoldya]

Exactly my point.

[Kelley1]

@duntoldya Women don't pick useless men; they settle for who they can get.

[Asker]

@kelley1

I find this to be true. At least for me. It's not hard for me to find a guy to marry. But marrying someone worth my while is hard to find. From my experience, a lot of these married people are married just because they have low standards. Marrying someone with kids, someone who never cooks or cleans, a very unattractive dude. short wimpy dudes.

[duntoldya]

That’s nonsense.

[Kelley1]

Some of us don't get married because our standards are unrealistically too high. However, at some point, it is better to remain single if the best we can do is settle for a man who will make us miserable.

[Kelly6]

It’s their choice.
who cares

[jshm2]

They aren't. They are having kids, but that is not the same as having a family.

Just like buying a car doesn't make you a racecar driver.

A lot of these single women with kids are going to end up with kids who will kill them for the fucked up situation they brought them into.

[Asker]

a single mother and her children ARE family. if they aren't a family, what are they? friends?

[Miristheiss]

All of the stats about how kids turn out raised by single moms, criminals, gang members, drop outs druggies, girls preggo at 15. It is a fucking disaster. Kids need a dad. Women that do this are evil.

[Asker]

Single motherhood does not garuantee kids will become criminals. There are rich financially stable single moms too. historically single moms have always been under poverty. But nowadays, more and more financially stable women are choosing to pay for sperm and IVF.

[Miristheiss]

You see you are trying to use the exceptions to try and negate the norm.
That is lame.
The higher probability is STILL the higher probability. You cannot really have intelligent discussions with those who ignore math and studies and just act as if they can ignore reality by only looking at the minority exceptions.

[Asker]

@miristheiss

Doesn't matter if the probability is higher. There are plenty of kids who grow up fine with single moms

JD vance grew up without a dad, so did elon musk, bill clinton, kamala harris and barack obama.

we have a white house filled with people without fathers.

[Miristheiss]

The vast numbers of those in jail... come from single parent homes.

[Asker]

@miristheiss

because historically single moms have been largely under poverty.

but recently we have been seeing an uptick of single moms who are rich or financially stable who can afford to pay for IVF and sperm

[Miristheiss]

A lot of deflecting and spin.
Facts, kids raised by single moms, by and large turn out way worse.
Kids raised by single dads turn out the same as if they were raised by 2 parents.
If you will not accept reality... no one can help you.

[Asker]

@miristheiss

there are plenty of single moms who raised presidents and vice presidents.

[BadApple69]

Not good for the child. Not good for the mother either.


But best of luck to any and all who want to do that.

[Asker]

not all moms are struggling single moms. some of us are very financially stable and can hire help

[BadApple69]

It’s not about being a good mom or a bad one. It’s about the fact that children need a dad in the house. Proven fact.

[Asker]

@badapple69

children do not need a dad.

JD vance grew up without a dad, so did elon musk, bill clinton, kamala harris and barack obama.

we have a white house filled with people without fathers.

[exitseven]

The kid automatically starts life behind the 8 ball. Having a 2 parent household gives kids a big advantage.

[Asker]

That's not true. Money puts kids at an advantage. 2 parent households tend to be more financially stable than single mother households. But recently we have been seeing an uptick of rich single moms having babies

[exitseven]

kids especially male ones need the influence of a male role model. It is not just a matter of economics.

[Asker]

@exitseven

That is something entitled kids complain about. I grew up in a family of 4- on 24k a year. Not having a father was the last thing I cared about. My father left when I was 6. He was a terrible dad. Abusive, bad tempered. I don't miss him and am glad he left. I'd rather grow up with a wonderful single mom than with an awful father.

[Asker]

No one has the perfect childhood. Even kids who have both mothers and fathers. Poverty can kill them. You might have a great mother and father but bullying at school can ruin a child

No childhood is perfect. But it's only when pros far outweighs the cons

There are plenty of other kids out there who can't afford a college education or even be able to eat 3 meals a day.

[LazerBean]

That they are selfish, and I feel sorry for their children.

[Ariesman81Nshiiit]

Feminists creating more feminists

[Asker]

You sound mad, bro

[Ariesman81Nshiiit]

It's just the reality of it. I guess it's better than marrying a guy, getting pregnant, divorcing, and taking him to the cleaners the way they use to do it. Now they just vote for endless welfare programs. After all, men gotta pay, right?

[Asker]

most of these women having babies by themselves tend to be very financially stable women. They aren't your typical single moms who can't afford to raise their kids.

[Asker]

buying sperm from sperm bank is expensive. IVF is expensive. birthing is expensive. Not something welfare mamas can do

[Ariesman81Nshiiit]

So not only does the kid not have a dad, but also an absent corporate mother? I wonder if that's why she couldn't find the man she wanted.

[Asker]

@ariesman81nshiiit

rich moms raise surgeons. poor moms raise hospital bathroom janitors.

take your pick

nothing good in life comes without a price

[Asker]

corporate women don't need men, hunny.

[Ariesman81Nshiiit]

From the semen of broke men? Not likely.

[Asker]

Sperm banks deliberately collect sperm from 18 to 22 yr old ivy league college students. Not some old expiring, balding 39 yr old man with subpar old sperm.

[Ariesman81Nshiiit]

Yeah, who's broke as a joke and is willing to impregnate some 225lb swamp donkey lesbian from Seattle so he can get another bag of weed.

[Asker]

@ariesman81nshiiit

Single women can start families. Single men can't

[Ariesman81Nshiiit]

Single women fuck children. Single men won't.

[Asker]

@ariesman81nshiiit

single men can't rape children because they abandon their kids for single moms to raise.

[Ariesman81Nshiiit]

Probably cause the mother was a feminist

[Asker]

@ariesman81nshiiit

You mad bro?

[Ariesman81Nshiiit]

Nope. Just wish things were different.

[Asker]

@ariesman81nshiiit

yea sound mad because feminists are in power

[duntoldya]

A single woman isn't a family.

[Kelley1]

Your opinion is ignored because it is false and has zero value.

[Asker]

So single mother and her kids aren't family? Would they be friends?

[888theGreat]

Future welfare queens

[Asker]

welfare queens can't afford IVF or to buy sperm

[Anonymous]

It’s there choice buddy.

[Anonymous]

Yep, it's THEIR choice

[Anonymous]

Irrelevant. Why would i think anything?

[jahaims]

Hilarious