What's your honest opinion on single mothers?

[chris_987]

I was thinking about this girl. That is very boy crazy. She loves to fall in love I guess. She is now pregnant and when I saw her doing the gender reveal by herself I thought to myself. Wow sure girls that aren't looking for a commitment really be having children. But that's just my opinion.

[Anonymous]

The there’s the creation of another crappy deadbeat father who doesn’t take responsibility and another poor woman who have to try to pick up the pieces alone and man up where the dude doesn’t.

Or, in the case she on purpose chose to be a single mother (adoption, sperm donor whatever) then I think good for her that she doesn’t have to worry about some asshole cheating on her, leaving her or acting like another child in the family that she needs to take care of creating even more stress for her. No custody battles for her either and no disappointment for her kids because dad left, doesn’t give a shit, pops in and out of their lives as he pleases or prioritize new girlfriend or stepkids over his own children. No feeling worthless because deadbeat daddy would rather be out fucking some bitch or being a father to some other kid than take care of them.

Yes, I know not all men are like this. My parents were married and my dad was involved (he’s dead now) but too many are like that nowadays that those are my genuine thoughts when I learn someone is a single mom.

[chris_987]

I think you misunderstood what I said. If you're a girl that chooses guys that don't want commitment. Then I still don't understand how you ended up blaming the man. The only conclusion I can draw is that you hate men and all women are innocent of their poor choices. Girls like you that can't think critically are going to have a hard time in life

[Anonymous]

Not a position I'd like to be in. There's a difference in a single mother and a mother who is single

[chris_987]

You'd be surprised how many girls feel the opposite way

[Apple1996]

They are basically superheroes for raising kids on their own. And I don't see any issue with them doing it alone. Sometimes it's better for the dad to be out of the picture If he is toxic or has other issues.

[chris_987]

I wouldn't necessarily call hoes superheroes but whatever

[Apple1996]

Being a hoe while juggling being a mom at the same time is impressive as well

[chris_987]

Well you have to ask yourself how common is it that you can be obsessed with sex and be a good mother. I doubt that's the Norm

[Apple1996]

Almost all moms are obsessed with sex. That's how they became moms in the first place

[chris_987]

Lol you clearly aren't taking about the majority of moms

[Apple1996]

No I'm talking about the majority

[chris_987]

Can you feel this way even though you don't date women

[Apple1996]

I would date a woman lol

[chris_987]

Would is different than actually doing it, and lesbians would be horrible mothers if they could get eachother pregnant. The single mother rate would be astronomical

[Apple1996]

Lesbian moms are the best. And no I have dated women in the past just not recently

[chris_987]

Dated do you mean slept with?

[Apple1996]

Nah more like dated

[chris_987]

Why would you date a women and not sleep with them if your bi

[Apple1996]

Yes of course

[chris_987]

Now I'm confused

[Anonymous]

Men should be working on themselves rather than having insecure thoughts on what women are doing. It is no wonder so many men on here are hopelessly single.

[chris_987]

You know you can still see a girl making poor decisions and say she fukkin up, with you still living life. Lol don't you see a homeless person and wonder what lead to be homeless.

The same way you can see a girl from high school who used to sleep with everyone and now you wonder why did she decided to be a single mother?

[Anonymous]

My mum is a single mother and I think she’s incredibly strong and I’m very grateful for her.