This could end up being a book if I went into details about how I know everything I say about the situation but they are facts witnessed by me and an associate of hers. I love her, she is the mother of my child and she is my best friend (most of the time).
Here is what she does. She used to text me at work all the time, to the point it would get annoying if I was trying to do something. Now and for the last 6 months it's very rare and if I text first it's generally hours before I get a response. After work a few days per week she leaves work without a message. I'm usually sitting and waiting for a few hours before she even checks my messages and it's always, I didn't hear my phone. She literally claims she was at hobby lobby about 6hrs every week and during this time. She never checks her phone? She has said she is somewhere I know she isn't because I'm there waiting. She deletes everything on her phone and changes her screen lock every time I question anything. She gets instantly defensive with very simple questions. I mean every single red flag is there but she deny's everything even if I show her facts. I am seriously questioning my sanity like am I paranoid, is she being honest? I usually pretend like I'm clueless because I want to think she is being honest but I really don't think she is. It's happened before. I would confront her then about texts I seen telling someone else she loves them. Took days off work but pretended that's where she was going and it's in the open I knew about it and put a stop to it but still to this day she has never actually admitted it. Otherwise she's amazing but I'm not dealing with her cheating again. Please I'd love your opinion.
