Do you feel bad for people who try their best but never find a real relationship?

[KindaCowardly]

[LazerBean]

Not that I can think of. Every time, it's been because of an obvious problem that they refuse to fix.

[KindaCowardly]

i can see that, thank you for your answer!

[lightbulb27]

Sure, but they have to make changes to what they believe and put in different or more effort.

[KindaCowardly]

they need to change their beliefs?

[lightbulb27]

Yes. Some shoot themselves in the foot. I've known some whom are not like they are beauty queens or rich, and they get married more than once. Others whom are attractive have no luck.
I noticed some people are stuck in their beliefs. They might read a book and be stuck in that mindset, or too limited, too strict. You have to have your values and be open, and then be able to handle challenges.
Ultimately, there's a lot of skills involved including sales.

[KindaCowardly]

sales?

[lightbulb27]

Yes, dating is a sales job. you have to sell yourself.

[KindaCowardly]

damn

[shish_kebab]

No, they just need to change their strategy.

[KindaCowardly]

good answer!

[shish_kebab]

Join a dance class. Not a private thing but a group. The ratio of women to men should be overwhelmingly in your favor. Even if you're a shitty dancer like me, it doesn't matter because you're not there to dance. 😜

[shish_kebab]

Thanks for the MHO

[jahaims]

No, if you are too stupid to figure out relationships then you shouldn't reproduce.

[KindaCowardly]

sad but true most likely, thank you for your answer!

[exitseven]

yes, now that you mention it. It does really suck.

[KindaCowardly]

😭😭 I guess at the end of the day some people just aren’t relationship material and that’s just what it is. Hard concept for most people to open up about.

[MrChinaski]

Nah. Not really.

[KindaCowardly]

at least your honest, thank you for your answer!

[duntoldya]

usually they're not trying their best.

[KindaCowardly]

true!