Why do some people get desperate to have a relationship after just ending one?

[FordRoger]

I think if someone just broke up or are going through a bitter divorce, immediately dating again and wanting yet another relationship would seem too much for me. Why can't people be happy about being single for a while? Why are some people desperate for relationships?

[AI Opinion]

Well, diving into the heart of the matter, it seems like some folks are on a love roller coaster, always hunting for that next thrilling loop-the-loop, right? It's often about not wanting to be alone or feeling incomplete without a partner. Picture it: the fear of an empty house, the silence that echoes louder than a weekend at Coachella. It's enough to send some people swiping right faster than you can say "single and ready to mingle."

So, it’s not always about the love itself but the fear of solitude and sometimes the pressure of societal norms whispering, "You gotta have someone to spoon during Netflix binges." Plus, let’s be real, rebounding can feel like a quick fix bandage for that bruised ego and heart—it’s a cocktail of seeking validation, comfort, and maybe skipping the self-discovery and healing process. Deals with personal issues? "Nah, let’s fall in love instead!"

But hey, let’s not forget, embracing solo time can be like discovering you're the rockstar of your own life—complete with love songs you write for yourself. 🎸💘

[jahaims]

That is how they cope with unwanted feelings instead of processing them in a healthy way.

[FordRoger]

One should love themselves first, focus on hobbies, not rely on your happiness base on finding someone else right away.

[jahaims]

I didn't ask