Why do people start another relationship before ending the old one?

[GymStatus]

Why do people start another relationship before ending the old one? Why would people cheat like that instead of ending it first? Are you guilty of doing this? Did karma get you?

Yes I am

No I am not

I thought about it

I did this and karma got me.

Just give me Bacon.........

A total of 35 votes were cast: 16 girls and 19 guys. See detailed results

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+1 y

I am surprise that no cheaters answered lol. You can fess up as an Anon user :)

[TheDigitalSaint]

I've never cheated while in a relationship, nor have I been cheated on to the best of my knowledge. I've broken up with people when I felt that the girl and I were no longer compatible. That being said, I never thought it was justified that I would cheat, so I didn't do it. You man up, tell the girl you don't want to be with her any longer if you aren't feeling anything for her and move on. It is far more respectful that way even if it hurts her feelings in the long run. Who wants to be known as the girl who was cheated on? Don't be a man whore, just tell her the truth and let both of you move on. That's my take.

[DebiPie]

Men who are cheaters don't care if their women will be known as the girl who was cheated on, because they (the men) have no morals. Same goes for cheating women. But you got it right, "whores." That's basically it.

[TheDigitalSaint]

I honestly think some cheaters don't care, but some actually do. The cheaters that do feel guilty, but not enough to get them to own up to their mistakes. Either that or I feel there are some cheaters that feel bad about what they're doing, but just use cheating as an excuse to get caught and end the relationship instead of doing the more forward thing and just formally admit is over. Some cheaters I think are just cowards, not always directly trying to inflict harm.

[TheGodEmperorLeto]

Why don't the poll options match the question :| fail! And I never would. Cheating needs to be a crime punishable by floggings in public! (not really, but it is disgusting).

[DebiPie]

My question exactly. I do not, and will not, ever understand this. If you want out, get out. Don't drag other people down because of your sorry *ss self. But then... if they were stand up people, they wouldn't be doing this anyway, would they?

I only hope there is karma...

[GymStatus]

What usually happens is a person they meet in the future ends up doing them wrong... Perhaps even in marriage.

[DebiPie]

Oh! I sure hope so. :) Is that bad of me? lol

[GymStatus]

Yes. as much as it hurts. Best to wish them luck in life. Hopefully you will have a person that is 2x better

[JennyBenny318]

My sister is doing this right now. She broke up with her boyfriend and now suddenly she's going out with some other guy. She's still friends with her ex-boyfriend and he told me that he still wants to marry her. So he's still waiting for her to come back to him.

[GymStatus]

He needs to just be friends but get a better woman... Sad

[rach212]

Cowards and selfish.. only out for themselves. The person they get with too are just as bad!

[Anonymous]

some people just need to be in relationships, serial daters, some people are in love with the idea of being in love and do it for the fun of it and are not necessarily deeply connected to whom they date

[Anonymous]

Only disrespectful people of the lowest calibre would do this.

[Anonymous]

Everyone has it in them to cheat!

[GymStatus]

Not me. I can't do it