Why is she still talking to me?

[Anonymous]

I told her I like her, then after 2 weeks I asked her out, and she told me she likes someone else. But we still talk on fb, and she shares all kind of stuff I don't asked abt. She complains a lot about things. Am I friend zoned or there's still hope?

[Phoenix52]

You're just her 'friend' but if you keep your cool and communicate well with her, she'll change her mind in due time and sleep with ya.

There's probably a good chance that she's already into you, but she just needs to feel more comfortable. So starting you in the 'friend zone' is her way of taking her time in getting to know you better. If you keep optimistic and flirt with her, but also talk deep and get a serious emotional connection going, she'll start showing signs of attraction down the road.

So keep your interactions going.

[Asker]

i really doubt shell sleep with me cause she's a nerdy virgin. but yeah ill do it your way, thanks man =)

[Phoenix52]

Haha. Give it time. She'll want to get laid sooner or later.

[hoodni99a]

Honestly, she's using you for attention. I would say, stop showing her attention, stop talking to her as much, don't comment her statuses, pictures, ect. and she will wonder why and slowly but surely want you little by little. trust me, you don't know what you have till its gone.

[Asker]

theres sense in your words, I don't think she gets any attentions from guys and she's pretty but sje doesent think she's pretty O_0

[hoodni99a]

Um, you don't understand, a girl who does not think she is pretty LOVES attention from guys. If she had a lot of attention from guys already, then she wouldn't need to keep using you for attention. just do what I say, I'm a girl.

[goldengurl42]

You're a great guy. Best guy friend material, but I don't think she think of you as anything else. Try to hold on to hope for a little bit longer to find more signs.

[sweet_18]

I think you are friend zoned for the time being. Just wait though.

[Asker]

wait and do what? :P still contact her?

[sweet_18]

no don't contact her unless she contacts you

[Anonymous]

Your in the friend zone, but she wants to act like she's into you for the attention.

[Xx_DRE_xX]

Friend zone drop that bitch.

[Asker]

haha nuff said xD but I don't have anything better to do these days, so ill just see what happens.

[Xx_DRE_xX]

fair enough

[Anonymous]

you're a friend