Should I be worried if he changed his password?

[jolielaide_transcend]

The other day the guy I'm seeing gave me his Facebook password so I could do something on there for him.

So then we were talking about how we give a lot of people our passwords & how it's not a big deal to us, etc..

& then yesterday my friend told me she was gonna mess with him over messages, so I wanted to go read if she did it & what her crazy self said..but he'd changed his password.

It's only bothering me because we had that conversation, so I'm wondering whether or not I should be suspicious.

Btw: We're talking pretty seriously.

[AltTech]

You wanted to spy on him but weren't able to and you are wondering if you should be worried?

There is really no need for anybody to have their bf/gf's passwords. If you are that suspicious, then there is obviously no trust and you shouldn't even continue with the relationship.

I'd just let this roll off my back if I was you.

[jolielaide_transcend]

I didn't ask for his password, he asked me to do something on his fb, TOLD me to go through his messages(I didn't) & that he "doesn't mind if I'm nosy" & then changed his password.

I do trust him, & I wasn't checking his stuff because I'm jealous or think he's talking to anyone else.

[geronimojoesaephus]

I don't think couples should exchange passwords. That's just dumb. One of my friend's exes would routinely check his messages and get angry at every little thing. Whether it was a female classmate asking for homework help or an inside joke between friends that she thought was about her, she would just let him have it. So dumb.

[Anonymous]

People who freely give out passwords make me extra suspicious, as they are doing to much to show trust.

I'd trust someone more who refused to give me a password & adamantly said they weren't cheating. It shows self-worth.

That's his property, you have no right to his property.

I'm a little suspicious you want to know so much about everything he does.

[jolielaide_transcend]

Like I said, I don't care what he does..I just wanted to read what my friend sent him, because they're both pretty crazy people.

[Opinion Owner]

Then ask him later about it. If he refuses to show you or explain what happened, LEAVE IT.

If you're only curious, it should not matter.

[jolielaide_transcend]

I wasn't going to bring it up to him, because it really isn't a big deal.

But I was jw if I should be worried, since he basically told me to go through his messages the other day (I didn't) & then he changed his password.

[Opinion Owner]

I seriously wouldn't be. Like I said, he had a complete right to his own privacy.

If something ELSE is up, then be worried.

[Anonymous]

Yeah...I'd be suspicious...