You honestly have no reason to worry from this guy. He gave you reassurance because he knew you needed it. I honestly think you should give him the benefit of the doubt. People are going to cheat or whatnot no matter what you do or feel. My whole philosophy is not to let the fear of being hurt again hold you or relationship back. I've been through the ringer by men and have every reason to be cautious but tbh I think that is what causes a lot of problems in relationships these days. It's like both genders have it in their heads that every person belonging to the opposite gender is going to hurt them. They perceive them as bad already and in doing so, the mind will point out things that back this perception up to protect yourself. Even things that are probably insignificant. It's pretty much setting yourself up for failure. Worrying and be cautious isn't going to stop somebody from hurting you, it will only make you hate yourself for knowing better if they do.
It's odd that he's done this. I'd be worried that he doesn't have reasonable boundaries. Has he asked for YOUR password?
I don't have anything to hide in MY phone either, but I don't want anyone going in it. It's no one else's phone!
Everyone deserves privacy. I don't invite people to talk to me while I use the toilet, or stand around while I take a bath, or visit with me in the exam room while I have a gynecological exam. Your personal phone is THAT private.
If someone shows you SOMETHING on their phone: a meme, a funny text from a friends, a photo, that's ONE thing. To give you their password crosses a line. And I would expect he'd want the same from you at some time in the future to prove YOU have "nothing to hide."
Something's off here. I can't pinpoint it, but I'd feel uncomfortable.
Since he was so open with his phone to you, you don't have to be worried that he'll do something hurtful behind your back. However, it does suggest that he places a very high value on openness in relationships (maybe due to a bad past experience). There's a good chance that sooner or later, he'll want you to reciprocate with the same level of openness (i. e. access to your phone), and that he will view any lack of openness with a great deal of suspicion.
In sum, I believe this event means you have to soon decide if you want to be completely open with him also, as a lack of openness might well be a big deal breaker for him.
This means that the guy has nothing to hide and is trying to build trust with you. I do this with any partner I'm with as well. The guy uses the "open book" method to gain trust. I like the dude. I find it interesting that mostly girls say "No still be aware". They have some serious trust issues which can be very toxic in a relationship. You always need to ask yourself, "Where do I draw the line?" You're either giving your full trust in the relationship or you don't and create that constant doubt. If you don't trust them, why are you with them in the first place? That phase should filtered during the dating phase.
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Less worried. That is a good sign... That being said, there are many fake apps you can get that look like stuff like calculators and etc that actually hode other apps like kik and other things like pictures. If any app has a password when you click it and it shouldn’t, be aware... also look in the hidden folder in the pics section of photos and any deleted files areas.. that will tell you a lot, IF he isn’t in the up and up... Trust me.. I found out the hard way with someone eager to show me they were on the up and up... 😟
If he said this randomly, then it's pretty weird but hey, he's got nothing to hide seems like.
Maybe some past relationship or something has something to do with it.
Seems like a chill guy, i wouldn't be to comfortable with it myself but i respect the confidence
Not at all.
Try building the trust within yourself and respect his boundaries.
See, if he is wants to cheat on you then no matter how hard you try you cannot fix him.
Its natural to have such insecurity in a relationship.
But when u will realise the actual concept of love then you will never worry of losing him.
He is being honest and transparent with you and showing trust. Means he actually cares for you and one has his eyes set on you and no other woman. That's a rare thing to find. If I trust the woman I'm dating and have nothing to hide I would do the same thing for the same reasons. I'm single so I can't do that right now.
I normally do the same, but now I have about a gigabyte of Hitler pictures saved on it (happy birthday, big guy), so it might cause some initial, erm... hesitation on their part.
Why would you be worried to begin with? If you don't trust him, then break up with him. Don't be the jealous girlfriend.
I have my husband's password. I just know he isn't the type to cheat because I trust in him. Plus he has good character.
Now for me i wouldn't mind giving my girl access to my phone. But i won't say hey u can check if you want i have nothing to hide. But yeah i will give her access who knows maybe she needs it one day and yes i have nothing to hide
My boyfriend gave me the password to his phone told me exactly the same thing find out he was talking to other women trust me he has something to hide don’t forget to check deleted messages if he has an iPhone
I just gave my wife all my passwords for everything. This is just incase somebody stops my clock.
Well if I was going to do something I should not, I would not be using a phone that could incriminate me.
Whatever.
He jeopardized his own security however.
My ex used this as reverse psychology and I still found nasty things... he probably thought I would trust him blindly
No, because you don't know about the OTHER phone he isn't telling you about!
My girlfriend knows my passcode. It's because I don't have anything to hide
Yeah but guess he could still hide things if you don't know where to look
Yes be less worried. But still keep an eye until you'll trust him 1000%
Yeah because you have access to everything
My guess is he has nothing to hide so relax.
u For now you should be Content
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