What's your reaction when you realize an old flame has blocked you on Facebook?

[Anonymous]

especially if you were mean to them like do you feel bad?

[whattothink]

i just get kinda pissed off. like I recently reconected with an ex for a very short lived fling. long story short he borrowed money for what was supposed to be three days in jan still haven't seen it. apparently he stopped talking to me when I got mad over him not giving it back to me a month later and I needed the $150 I couldn't spare in the first place for my brakes that were beyond needing to be replaced. So he blocked me on fb and his phone and can't find him. ran into a mutual friend and asked what gives. supposedly he said I went ape on him over him not texting me back (leaving out the fact that I was meeting hiim for my money and he was no where to be found). and a couple of our mutual friends blocked me after he told them lies. so yeah just pissed for me.

[Asker]

ouch! sorry to hear that yea I think the bigger problem here is the money! you should tell the police he basically stole from you.

[whattothink]

not worth it at this point much happier he's gone but still pissed I can't get it at all now.

[ObscuredBeyond]

I take pains not to be mean to any of my flames. But when blocked, it is a dagger through the heart. It's like they snuck up behind and knocked me out with a crowbar, then dumped me in a plastic bag and threw me in the river. That's how deep the sense of betrayal is.

The only thing they can do worse is try to turn some authority figure against me. Then, it's an act of war.

[BCRanger10]

I would feel like I deserved it and try to move on.