Do women do the choosing?

[Anonymous]

Like I realized dating is hard for men. And a lot of woman have been dating a lot more than men. I see a lot of my friends who are men who are single and I when I go out sometimes I always see woman in events who are in company with a guy and are in relationships with guys. But men are always single not because they want to but because they can't get a girlfriend. I'm just thinking is this true do woman have it easy?

[Spirit156]

Unfortunatly a woman has boobs she uses on the battlefield and ass looks and whatnot

A man needs a lot from the inside and not as much on the outside... Some men are missing out on that part and they are single for awhile

I must say women face the problem of men being afraid to ask her out all the time while a guy faces rejection a lot when he does start to ask because he is too late

The guy mostly initiates based on the signals she gives him, I noticed that a lot when I'm talking to girls that some of them are actually afraid of being talked to herself while some actually just be friendly but prefer not to talk (I don't mind talking but id be better that you go)

While a woman, well she doesn't spend 2 hours on trying to look good while she is always trying to see if she gained a few pounds

So if you look at it, we guys aren't trying hard eneugh to get dates :p

[Zodiac988]

I was the "lonely" type a while back until I started approaching women on my own; when we take more chances, we greatly increase our odds of finding a lady to be with. Women sure do have it easier in that they are the ones approached and can do the judging right then and there with zero effort, but the down side of being female is the seemingly constant leering, rude comments, and general unwanted attention from certain creepy males. The grass is not always greener on the other side.

[Asker]

No your wrong you have a choice without effort you have the ability to choose so basically your in control of the dating scene think about it and besides men always try to talk to woman but these woman are shallow more times so basically brother were screw.

[makayladurfey]

Unfortunately for men, yes. But I wouldn't necessarily call it 'easy'. We face the same problems you guys do. But here's how the ball rolls, my friend. Women choose who they wind up with. You can ask any old timer you know and they'll agree. Ya, men have say so in the relationship choosing also but when it comes down to the bare threads, the woman really does. It's common knowledge among people who've been around the block a couple times. That's why a man should never question or make fun of his wife's or girlfriends decisions, because they were one of them ;)

[Asker]

So woman have it easy in dating. so a female reproductive system is strong I wish I was a woman I probably won't be dealing with loneliness problems.

[makayladurfey]

Don't worry, you'll find someone ;) But a lot of women deal with lonlines problems too...don't think that becuase we have the final say so that we are just having to beat men off with a stick. Like I siad, we face the same problems you guys do.

[Asker]

No you don't you have physical attributes that give you power but men don't let's face it. woman have it more easier and more options.

[makayladurfey]

Um, men do too lol. We are just better at hiding our response :P. Don't you think for a second that women don't swoon over a well mucled chest, a cute ass, or a big package. And I could stay here and argue with you that we do have the same problems you just don't see it becuase you're on the other side, but I'm not becuase from the sound of it you feel pissed off at women-kind for something that has gone on since the cavemen times. But I wish you luck in your future endevors, my friend :)

[Asker]

well if you say so how come there is more men who are single than woman?

[makayladurfey]

Well that is in your area and its different in different socail groups and areas. And, keep in mind, it may seem worse than it really is becuase you are feelings lonely. That is how the human mind works. Around me there are more single women than men.

[Asker]

wow.

[BlueX]

Arent these woman you see out on dates with MEN? So wouldn't that mean both sexes are dating? Aren't those men in a relationship or dating those woman?

I guess I am confused by the question.

[Asker]

More men are single than woman and woman can choose if they want to be in a relationship. so your in control you should be happy to have a vagina there is a lot of power in what you have. woman make money out of their privates. and choose a man with out effort. I wish men have the same power.

[BlueX]

Woman face the same problems as men. You just don't think it, because you are on the opposite side. I WISH I had the power to choose to be in a relationship or not. Its takes a lot of effort to choose a man, and many times the man doesn't reciprocate.

[Zodiac988]

He is rather confusing; I can't make heads or tail of his garbled response to me.

[Asker]

I'll give you tails how can you say woman don't have it easy and then you say they do?

[BlueX]

When did I say woman have it easy? I think it is difficult for both sides.

[cyrus7]

the answers simple..

guys should stop feeding girl's egos

[Anonymous]

it seems like that, because women have the final say almost all the time, as in they just have to Veto