Do you think women have more at stake before deciding to enter a relationship?

[Shehnaz]

If yes then why?

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8 mo

Is it a greater stake due to our bio clock if we do not enter a relationship just to be safe?

[HawkPerception]

I'd say women have more at stake.

This is a hard truth. Women are born with value. Men have to work to create their value. Women have to protect their value. Men have to earn theirs.

A woman's body count affects the majority of mens opinion of her perceived value. It's much easier for a woman to get with a man than a man to get with a woman. So it's not really a flex when she's been with a lot of guys. It's disgusting more than anything.

I'm against male promiscuity as well, but I can understand why some men are impressed by a guy who can get with a lot of girls. There's very few guys in the world that can do that.

Women are naturally attracted to men with more experience in life. It's their biological predisposition. It's all about that dominant submissive dynamic.

[Zack-Bann]

I would say it’s a high stakes decision no matter the gender.
It is (and should be) an impactful decision not to be made lightly


Doesn’t mean you opt out of making it.
Life is about the impactful choices we make. We don’t get to skip them

[Nikki1989]

They have more to lose.

An obvious example is pregnancy with a man who turns out to be a deadbeat dad. Men will still blame the woman and say she should have chosen more wisely, but anyone with any common sense knows that life often doesn't work that way.

[WhitneySnow]

I think both people have equally much at stake

[WhitneySnow]

No. Especially at my age, no one cares about their biological clock.

[ChicoFromThe305]

I mean women have a lot to gain when entering a relationship, that's of course it we are talking about a traditional woman, when entering a relationship her status pretty much becomes the same as his and they share everything, both equally put their time at stake when they choose each other tho so it's best to always choose wisely

[bunniesrcute]

what status? its not the 1950s anymore, grow up.

[ChicoFromThe305]

Nothing has changed for some people just cause you, you grow up thinking the world revolves around you, you aren't special

[bunniesrcute]

when did i say it does?

[ChicoFromThe305]

You've implied it when you made it obvious that you think the world has to behave the same cause you behave a certain way, it's not the 50s anymore but there's surely women out there that still have the traditional values like it is

[bunniesrcute]

sure but there's A LOT more people that aren't traditional, thats my point. its not the norm anymore.

[ChicoFromThe305]

Sounds like the mentality of a child

[bunniesrcute]

literally how?💀

[ChicoFromThe305]

Cause there's people from different ages and different generations, assuming that traditional values has died off when these generations still coexist shows signs of a non fully developed brain 😂

[ChicoFromThe305]

Traditional having a decrease doesn't mean it stopped existing, you point being that because there's a decrease that its not valid but I'm speaking about traditional relationships here clearly, there's no place for your negativity, by the way I know you are a child, hiding it is pointless 😂

[bunniesrcute]

dude. I've never said it stopped existing. im simply saying its not the norm anymore that the man goes to work and the woman stays home. you’ll rarely find that nowadays. literally WHAT are you talking about? im a child for telling you the truth? you need to accept that there's not a lot of traditional women nowadays that wants to be owned by men anymore. grow up. times change.

[ChicoFromThe305]

Its rare with the new generations but you are excluding the older generations, it might be rare with modern youth but there's still lots of relationships in the 30s age range or higher that have traditional relationships, also that's not counting the religious side of things that with religion, traditional values remain intact, Im highly aware that with the youth that traditional values have decreased but my point is speaking about traditional women, I don't know why you butted in, also you are a child cause your real age is 16, I know exactly who you are, you aren't slick 😂

[bunniesrcute]

the older generations? meaning 70-80 year olds? u want a 76 year old wife? be my guest.
why the fuck would i be 16? what are u on ab now? this just shows u never finished school. we both know ur not gonna find a traditional wife u can keep as a slave.

[ChicoFromThe305]

Slave? What does slavery have anything to do with this, you are 16 cause I know exactly what user you are and with this miserable attitude you always have it's not very hard to see that you are clearly the same person, and women on their 30s still have traditional women, you are far too young to talk like you know anything, it's clear you lack common sense

[bunniesrcute]

do you know what a traditional wife is?
LMAO another uneducated incel. basic male trait.

[ChicoFromThe305]

They both become one, which is how any healthy relationship should be and you are always mad, I don't think I've ever seen you not mad actually, who knew such a small lifeform can be so full of rage 😂

[bunniesrcute]

nope. in what way does the woman own her husband? im not mad🤷‍♀️

[ChicoFromThe305]

The same ways, they become one flesh, meaning that both of their bodies belong to each other, same with their trust and loyalty, the commitment should be from both and equally with the equal effort but some marriages with traditional values have gender roles which in a compatible traditional relationship both agree and are happy with playing their role, it's compatiblity, if you were to marry then you clearly would be more compatible in a modern relationship which have some similar values when it comes to loyalty and commitment but don't believe in a specific gender role, it's not an enslaving thing, both just agree and want it this way while others such as yourself would rather not have those roles and that's totally fine but people can still choose to adopt those values if they wanted too

[bunniesrcute]

no it doesn't, they just get married, sign a paper. the man now owns the woman, she has no way to get out if something happens because she doesn't have any money. she's stuck now. the man can leave at any second, the woman can't.

[ChicoFromThe305]

Well clearly you are living in your own sexist little world, both are willing to leave when they please, well younglin, either ways I'm going to bed, try not to explode while I'm gone.

[bunniesrcute]

did you seriously report my reply?

[ChicoFromThe305]

No I went to bed, just woke up now

[bunniesrcute]

reported my reply bc you couldnt answer back? seems weak to me…

[ChicoFromThe305]

I didn't report anything, and I love pissing you off, one of mine got taken down as well, I didn't even get to read what you said

[ChicoFromThe305]

Stop whining about your comment 😂

[bunniesrcute]

im not pissed off? what r u going on ab? do yk what sarcasm is?

[ChicoFromThe305]

Yea I invented it and that's not sarcasm, and you are always mad 😂

[bunniesrcute]

here he goes, basic male, can't accept anything he doesn't agree on🤣🤣

[ChicoFromThe305]

What are you yapping about now, I thought you went away already 😂

[RHK36]

Women have more at stake early in life and men have more later in life.

[bowenw]

They run the risk of ending up a single mother which is far more than men risk.

[In_Trance]

Generally speaking I think they overvalue themselves more often than not

[bunniesrcute]

yeah, thats why i dont date

[MasterKS]

You need to try everything.