Has playing games ever backfired?

[ilovebender]

Treat her mean, keep her keen and other games like that.

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I am basically asking have you ever played a game with a guy/girl that you really liked and he/she walked away because they knew what you were doing or they just don't put up with that kind of treatment?

[InvisibleKid]

yeah, I did games once with a girl who was so honest that she completly destroyed my so called "game"

But I have also game girls into whanting to have babys with me. Nowadays I just don't give a sh*t and I*m OK with whatever the outcome might be. I think it's more effortless to not try to gain control over something or someone. Just going with the flow and trusting in the univurse keeps thing intresting imo.

[Anonymous]

No but I've walked away as a result of them. Games never work in the end & will always backfire & cause bad feelings. So many possible relationships ruined because of games.It's kinda sad.

[ilovebender]

I don't see how they can be possible good relationships if one or both are playing games but I understand what you are getting at.

[hipnerd2017]

i agree on the sad part. but im curious how it can end well. i have not heard much on this.

[angiebell]

All games backfire and hurt everyone involved. Even if your game is initially successful, the resulting damage will come. Usually it takes a long time to come back on you. Years. The one who suffers the most is always the one who played the game.

[ilovebender]

I don't play games. I was just curious.

[Anonymous]

I never play games. It's usually the women who play stupid mind games with me. Then when I do not tolerate their bullsh*t and move on, they get annoyed.

[ilovebender]

You sound like me.

[Frostie]

No. If I didn't give a sh*t I wouldn't give a sh*t.

[ilovebender]

Does that mean you only play games with girls you don't care about?

[Frostie]

No, that means if I don't care about them, I won't waste my time with them. If I do care enough to talk to them, I will. No games are ever held.

[ilovebender]

Ok I understand now.

[aditya03]

works most of the time

but sometimes the girl is clever enough to understand

then they can play the game of their own

[Anonymous]

Yes. I've had games blow up in my face, and I've dropped girls hard for playing games with me. In my experience, they all backfire eventually.

[AndyWes]

I'm sure it has, but *not* doing stuff like that will backfire on you more often.

[Anonymous]

Sometimes but it's definitely more effective than being honest and sincere. Basing this on experience.

[anthony87]

its not .. you just never had the balls to be honest

[Opinion Owner]

When you finally lose your virginity, come back and post, Mr. Nice Guy.

[hipnerd2017]

and how did they end well, i'm curious?

[calialltheway1993]

It backfires like a b*tch, sometimes.

[kheserthorpe]

Nothing works all the time.

[hipnerd2017]

just how does it work? lol...

[EvilCookies]

No never had the slightest clue. xD

[Anonymous]

a TON!