Why is it so hard to find a girl to talk to on sites like omegle and just anywhere on the internet?

[Anonymous]

Do you guys know omegle? Well I spend hours every time I go on praying and hoping that one girl just comes and stays to talk to me. However, it never happens. I go through hundreds of girls in god knows how many hours and none of them ever stay and try talking to me. There are a couple of say hi and then leave within 5 seconds. I try talking to girls on here to but it's just so hard trying to find a nice decent girl who is willing to talk to me. It's so annoying because right when they see my face or find out what I look like, they don't wanna talk anymore. You guys will say I'm whining and all but you have no idea how mentally frustrating it is to be this ugly. Like so many girls who I believe are in my league and also overweight even though I'm athletically choose to just skip and ignore me. Few girls I tried talking to on GAG never really replied back with interest and just putting me in an uncomfortable spot to carry the conversation longer. It's just so hard.

[udolipixie]

Why is it so hard to find a girl to talk to on sites like omegle and just anywhere on the internet?

Perhaps it's so hard for you and those like you. Probably best suited to use the text option on omegle and stick to sites that don't use video.

Do you guys know omegle?

Yes some of my gal pals use it to get guys to send money to them via paypal when they want a couple thousands and don't have much time.

[Anonymous]

You remind me of Charlie Brown (so full of negative energy). If your picture is on your main profile, take it down; next do as mimikay said.

Before you do, always remember that a lot of guys harass girls around here. They say hi followed by 'you wanna cyber?' Lots of immaturity here, which means you have a lot of unsmooth terrain to first cover.

[Asker]

I just wanna nice simple chat. And no, I don't wanna take my picture off. Sure I might be ugly but I'm not ashamed of who I am or how god made me.

[Opinion Owner]

god made you ugly? sounds like god wasn't nice to you.

Look for an ugly girl to increase your chances.

[Asker]

Ha Ha. Don't even ask about the "ugly girls". Like I already said, the girls who were really fat and all skipped me non stop even though I'm a guy who's athletically fit.

[Opinion Owner]

They probably skipped you because of your negative personality. Looking at your other comments around here you seem fixed on self pity.

[Asker]

LMAO how can anyone detect someone's personality within one second without any sort of communication?

[Opinion Owner]

I think its time you do as kirsten said and leave the house to associate with people because you really lack social skills. Go to A.A. meetings, pretend you're an alcoholic. Those places are easy to find, simply look for hypocrites smoking outside of a church.

[Asker]

I can't. I don't have my own car since my dad took mine after his died a couple of years ago. I only go out when my friends pick me up and what not.

[Opinion Owner]

(Sounds like you keep finding excuses to feel sorry for yourself). Can't you walk? take a bus? find a meeting nearby and approach a guy who is friendly so you can learn how to talk to people for real.

[Asker]

Can't walk such long distances. There are no buses in the suburbs where I live. Also no meetings anywhere nearby that I know of. And I know how to talk to people. I'm not trying to keep finding excuses, these are the actual circumstances which I face.

[Opinion Owner]

i thought you were athletically fit.

[Asker]

No one would wanna walk for hours back and forth.Plus time.

[Opinion Owner]

you refuse to meet girl in the real world, all the while insist on showing them your picture? something not right about that.

[suki248]

Hm... try finding a girl in close proximity that's tangible. And I mean that in the least condescing was possible. Also find some confidence. In order to have a healthy relationship at least one party must have confidence and the other party should be working to increase theirs.

[TheUglyOne]

I know how bad it is to be ugly. You just have to be persistent and eventually you will find a woman who will find you interesting.

[Asker]

It sucks completely if you're not rich. Quite lonely life.

[IHateBeingaMan]

girls are far more picky and choosy online than they are in real life unfortuneately

[mimikaycool]

Well, maybe you were trying to force yourself on the girls too much. Try to get to know them, ask them questions, give them time to respond. Talk about your strengths instead of your weaknesses. If you get a girl to like you and then send her a picture, she won't care what you look like, because you've already made her feel so good.

Hint: Just ask them questions and sound really interested. Girls love talking about themselves.

[Asker]

I don't even get the time to type out "hey". They see me and click disconnect for the next person right away.

[mimikaycool]

Oh, you do video! Dude, up the confidence. It might not be because of your appearance. Girls find it awkward to just talk to one guy, they feel on the spot. They like talking to groups. Try inviting some buddies to do it with you, or just talk in text.

[Asker]

On those videos I've lost count to how many girls made faces like how ugly I was and even said it straight to my face and also stuff like "eww".

[mimikaycool]

Well, try what I said..The talking in text. Asking questions. Talking. And build up some confidence. Chicks dig confidence more than anything else(:

[kirstentaylorc]

Stop trying to talk to girls online, go out and meet girls! You're wasting way too much time on this site to get constantly rejected, those sites are ridiculous anyways.

[Asker]

Where am I supposed to go? Clubs? Lol it's just as worse. If you're an ugly guy who approaches girls, girls will label you as a desperate or creep. If you choose to not approach them at a club to avoid being labeled as one, you're a wallflower!

[kirstentaylorc]

Lol no, not the club. You just need to start partaking in hobbies, you're never going to find a girl when you're sitting there looking for 1. As ironic as that is.

Women are going to be attracted to somebody who lives their life. I would just stop worrying about girls altogether at this point. You don't need to be with somebody else to fulfill your happiness. You'll meet somebody when you least expect it.

[LexiNinja]

Omegle is just a place for a bunch of horny bastards and wobbling d***s o.o I don't think you can talk to a vagina..

[Asker]

If it's a place for a bunch of horny bastards and wobbling d***s then shouldn't the girls at least give a chance to someone who's just sitting there normally without his d*** out and highly possible that he's just looking to chat? Like my god every single girls comes and disconnects me like my face is scarred or something.

[kheserthorpe]

Have you considered that maybe they are, in fact, on there for the d***s?

[LexiNinja]

what kheserthorpe said o.o

[Anonymous]

100s of girl?!?!? really?

take some enhancement pills so you have something to show them...

learn how to do some tricks

[Lifehub]

hello everyone , so m here to ask girls about foot fetich
why girl's found it weird?

[antonlikesmlb]

Get your game up. Way, way up.

[Asker]

How does a person gets his game up when he can't even get the opportunity to even type out hi. They see your face and click disconnect right away. No matter how high a guy can get his game up, there is just no way he can get a chance to talk unless he's incredibly good looking.

[Anonymous]

first world problems