Where can I find a girl to talk with?

[Hasan2023]

Hi I am 18 years old almost 19 and never talked to a girl I am in college and would love to talk with a girl

[Laura_Marx]

when you're young life tends to be very gender-segregated. it is not unusual to have had no serious friendly experiences with the opposite sex at your age. now that you're an adult, other people your age are curious about experiencing other sexes and are inclined to make those kinds of connections. if you simply put yourself in social situations—talk to your classmates, go drinking with your friends, and so forth—girls will start to populate the enviornment without any special effort from you. in the meantime you might happen upon a girl you like by chance, and then you can invite her to the kind of things you already do.

in terms of using the internet, when i was your age i would do crazy things, like message girls on MySpace (that's right—MySpace!) who i thought were pretty. back then the internet was something new to most people, so getting a message from an interested person was still something exciting and they would talk to me. i got pussy that way. actually, i still do things like that these days. if i see someone online who i think is cool i always message them and tell them just that. they might just send me a polite thanks, but if they like what i'm doing they might have something to say to me, too. now we're praising each other (i love this part; there is an art to it) which quickly turns into flirting. and so forth. but you have to be careful about it, because messages from strangers can alarm people. also, there's no reason that the people you find interesting online are going to live near you. for myself i don't really care, i just buy them plane tickets, LOL. at 19, paying tuition every month, you probably can't do that. the only advantage to dating apps is that they filter to people near you, but i hate using them. i hate trying to sell myself like that, you know? you can't be coy on a dating app, or play hard to get, so a lot of the pleasure of seduction is gone for me. anyway, good luck!

[GreenLanternI0I]

Start simple, start asking girls for time, just randomly start asking as many girls as possible (do you know what time is it? then say thank you and walk away like you mean it). Than start asking them (do you know how to get to a certain location in your college and don't ask them like you are interested in them, ask them as you really need to know). Again, start asking random girls, do not, I repeat DO NOT ask only good looking girls, you need to get fully comfortable approaching girls first. Ones you conquer your fear and hesitation approaching girls, than you can graduate to walking up to girls that you really like and asking them their number 99% won't give you and 0.001% will give you fake one, BUT that 0.0001% will give you the real thing because they truly like you.

[Xepshunall]

A good place to start is in the cafeteria.. especially if it's otherwise empty. Just ask if you can join her. Don't feel pressured to start a conversation. Just eat your food until one of you has a thought to share with the other. If it doesn't work the first time, try again with the same girl. If she asks why and refers you to the previous time, just tell her that you would have liked to start a conversation but the only thing you could think to say is that you find her attractive and that you didn't think you should start off with that. It can't go too wrongly after that.

[Summeroflove]

College. I mean anywhere there is women

[Guy13]

Go to a sorority party.

[Akam93]

@Guy13 or dating apps. Would be better.

[Guy13]

I am thinking real people so another option is www.meetup.com

[Akam93]

@Guy13 sorority houses are nothing but skanks. So why say it?

[Guy13]

@Akam93 That's not true. the skanks are at the Frat and Soccer houses.

[Akam93]

@Guy13 and you would know cause your a former soccer player. Lol

[Guy13]

@Akam93 and VP of largest fraternity with largest house and outdoor space. Mr. Ambassador nickname was not without cause.

[Akam93]

@Guy13 your making me laugh. Lol do I want to know your nickname? Was it sex machine? 😂

[Guy13]

@Akam93 Not even close… Some of the ⚽️ guys called me Clodhopper.
Most of the body called me Mr. Ambassador The school hired me for a shoot which went out in recruiting so I caught hell for that from sophomore year on. I can’t even tell you the things soccer guys did with 6 window fold out pamphlets
I had a lot of pencil pocket protector and not fashionable matching glasses Nerd friends who called me Nerd from Hell. We would have been unstoppable if we had remote controlled drone

[Akam93]

@Guy13 I'm sure you would be that type of guy that would like me right? Even back then. Lol

[AmeerX]

I f you are in US or Europe, go to a club or some bar to find girls

[boobliker]

in any shop just talk to them, some bite but not too hard enjoy chatting and listening tooo

[msc545]

colleges have lots of girls. Talk to one of them.

[Iron_Man]

You’re in college there’s plenty of girls

[In_Trance]

Outside. They're everywhere