Asked a girl out, said she was busy next two weekends, but would definitely be down 2 weeks from now?

[Anonymous]

Pretty much what the question says, what does it mean in girl speak?

[Arwen]

Honestly...it could go both ways. I have a feeling she may be trying to let you down easy hoping by the time two weeks are up you will forget to ask her out again. However it does seem a little specific that she would say two weeks then she would be free so maybe she was telling the truth. I don't know this girl and I don't want to mess up yours or her chances (if she likes you) of you two being together but I know when I am trying to avoid plans with someone I say things like that :-S

I don't know if that was much of a help but there you go

Best of luck!

[xxangel1990xx]

It means exactly what she said-she is busy at the moment but soon won't be. If she wasn't interested then she wouldn't have told you she is free in 2 weeks. She would just say she is too busy right now and then if you said what about sometime later she would have just said to you that she isn't sure what she has planned.

[pumba22]

Yeah that's alright. She is probably just really busy...maybe exams, work, personal problems etc. I wouldn't worry about it pal. I asked a guy I like out a few days ago and he was busy for the next week with his exams, but he said we will hang out for sure. I know when we have a crush we over analyze stupid things, but we shouldnt. So far I think your good. Nothing really to worry about. Just try not to nag her too much.

[ashley90]

It could mean exactly what she said, she's got something going on for the next two weekends but after that wants to see you. On the other hand it could mean that she just hopes after two weeks you forget about it and move on. I'd go with the first one and try again in two weeks. If she says no again you know it was the second one.

[dead-mellotron]

she means it. if she didn't want to go out, she wouldn't of given you an alternative time period. way to go. :)

[Asker]

I kind of implied on the weekends? should I ask if she wants to go out during the week or nay?

[dead-mellotron]

Well, I'm not sure. if she's busy during the weekends, her weekdays must be hell! try to make concrete plans for her next free weekends so she doesn't become busy again?