Are there girls out there who don't like clubbing?

[Anonymous]

I thought there must be but I'm starting to question that. Maybe I have horrible luck but I can't find one!

[thtdiablo]

I'm not a girl but I hate it and always hated it and still will hate it in the forseeable future :D Same for my wife. We like cozy nights at home, we hate crowded, noisy, smelly places (since smoking is prohibited in many public places in Europe, it stinks of sweat, puke and way too much alcohol...).

Instead of clubbing we often invite friends over for a dinner ir so. It's much more fun!

[Mrsupaakeru]

Why do you have to date a girl that doesn't like/go clubbing?

I'm sure you can find a good girl who does like/go clubbing and doesn't mind that you don't. She can just go with friends.

[Asker]

That would make me a sad panda.

[Mrsupaakeru]

What would make you a sad panda?

[Asker]

Having a girlfriend that likes clubbing =\

[Mrsupaakeru]

Why is that?

[Asker]

Won't be able to relate to her on it. I think it will cause disagreements and damage the relationship.

[Mrsupaakeru]

I don't like clubs. Too much noise, too many people too close, extremely expensive. Dancing can be fun, but there the guys are practically humping the girls backsides. It's disgusting. I am friends with several girls who liked the club scene when they were 20-22 who are perfectly easy to relate to. They have lots of other interests. Try to talk to the girls you meet and find some common interests. Chances are they just like to dance and have no where else they can go. Some will be girls you

[Mrsupaakeru]

won't like.The ones that just want to hook up with guys or just get ridiculously wasted. Others just like to dance and have fun with friends and find the guys creepy there. My point is that you are painting these girls in broad strokes and needlessly shrinking your dating pool. You will fund some good, datable girls who also like to go to clubs.

[Asker]

It's looking like I'll have to compromise, anyway. But how can you tell which ones just go to dance and which ones go to get drunk and hook up with random guys if you don't go yourself and see?

[Tealtop1]

I don't like clubbing,and never have. I'd like to go out dancing but I won't simply because of all the crap that in entitles (getting sweaty, being rubbed on by sweaty strangers, being hit on my weirdos, and witnessing an army of stupid drunk people. I can't.

[PinkAcid]

me, id rather sit watching TV on the sofa in my pjs or something, I don't like the club scene or the so drunk I have a hangover for 3 days and sick in my hair scene either

im not snobby or stuck up by the way, I'm pretty down to earth

[ThenThereWas1]

No. ALL women, HALF the population likes clubbing. Doesn't that even just sound ridiculous? Might as well ask if all guys like knitting sweaters :-P

[Asker]

I know it sounds ridiculous but it's starting to seem that way for me.

Put it down to frustration, I don't know.

[ThenThereWas1]

Where do you meet these girls? What are they like? Do you notice any similarities between them? If so you might try looking around a different environment, or girls with different kinds of personalities or interests. Most people who are super extroverted will probably be into partying/clubbing

[Asker]

At my university.

Honestly, no - no similarities. That's what surprised me. Not being the extroverted/clubber type myself I don't go for those kind of girls. But even the quieter, more shy girls - turns out they all go clubbing too!

[ThenThereWas1]

Huh, that is so odd! I honestly don't know what to say :/ Sorry I wasn't much help. I guess a lot of people are wanting to experience their "wild college years". I really hope you eventually come across someone more chill and down to earth.

[Asker]

Maybe I should just bite the bullet and try online dating. God help me.

[Anonymous]

I've known many girls and guys who didn't like the club scene in their late teens/early 20s. You're just looking in the wrong places.

[Anonymous]

Im not into clubbing that much...I do it from time to time though.

[Account]

*Raises hand*! I hate clubbing.

[Asker]

It's lame, isn't it?

[Anonymous]

There are a lot of people who don't like it.

[Anonymous]

Young girls in generally like clubbing