Bored at a frat party, didn't even try to have fun. Is that weird?

michaelhotguy
so, I went to this frat party. when I got there I immediately didn't feel like I fit in. I'm a fit dude, but they were all jacked dueches, and it felt like they were all posturing with each other, I didn't even feel like trying to engage in it. I knew a couple guys, by a couple I mean 2, one wasn't there, and the other was coat check and bar. I felt like I had no one to hang out with. on top of that I've been sort of seeing this sorority girl, who was there. I left just after getting there early and it was just starting up so I had a beer and walked about. when I came back it was packed. but I still didn't feel like engaging in conversation with anyone or dancing, to be honest I was tired. I'm 23 and had a full week, and I'm starting to think partying isn't my idea of fun. I didn't even try to find the girl I was seeing, instead I just drank my ticket-prices worth of the beer and sat at the back reading articles on my phone. a few people came to me, so I met some people. but I just didn't want to do more than I did. I felt a little bad not finding this girl, but she was with her sorority so I knew she was having fun with them, and I knew my lack of enthusiasm for being there would be a downer to them. I do feel bad though Because I told her id see her there... anyone been in similar situations? I don't wanna say its because I'm old, I just think my idea of fun is different. I lead a very full life during the week, and to be honest my work is fun to me. and honestly I was having more fun reading articles with music blasting and a beer in my hand than being part of any circle. is that weird?
Bored at a frat party, didn't even try to have fun. Is that weird?
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