You are painting the stereotypical image of the 'frat boy' and I think you're a little off in your perceptions. Some aren't cut out to be in fraternities or attend their parties, and you aren't going to ever be welcomed at any if you act like a pretentious 'douche' of your own. I know many fraternity brothers who aren't jacked or wear popped collared shirts, or paddle each others asses with paddles. It's not really all that hard to blend in at a fraternity party, considering all you have to do is show up, drink, and talk. Often times there are brother and sister Greek organizations, and it's late September which means many are in their pledging process, so I wouldn't take it personally at all. No one wants a downer, so honestly I wouldn't blame her for ignoring you and acting that way honestly. Frankly, if you were acting like a bitch at my frat house and not socializing with people and being a judgmental and pretentious person, I'd throw you out and you'd never be welcomed back. Maybe join a math team or something more suited for you.
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College isn't really much fun when you're out of college. You just have different priorities. There are lots of girls your age looking for a fit, level headed guy. I'd go about meeting girls in places that are more your style. That way, you'll enjoy the time you spend with her. Trying to force yourself to do things that are tedious or annoying is part of what makes trying to date so frustrating. Trying to maintain at least some of the things you find fun helps make dating more agreeable.
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