Ok so im a freshman girl. Its been like 3 weeks since i started uni and i couldn't meet anyone so i found out about parties that are happening nearby. I went to one last night alone and i dont know ANYONE there. They let me in tho lol. everyone was drinking and dancing and making out/ grinding and i was just standing there with a beer in my hand pretending to drink (i dont drink lol). I was just slightly swaying to the music, hoping that some cute guy would try to talk to me. For the whole 2 hours no one talked to me/touched me at all, except this one guy who approached me and asked for my name , introduced himself and asked me if i was in a sorority or if i went to the post game (?) i said no to both and he said then how did u get here? i said ik smeone here (watevs lol) and he was like ok and left. So I don't know if he was actually interested or just suspicious of me. Im not saying that everyone was making out but it really hurt that i got zero attention. i dont know what i was doing so wrong. maybe im ugly and dont realize it?
Don't overthink it too much. Although, if you did look awkward or reserved they probably wouldn't approach you. From what I've known frat guys try to hit up tons of girls in any situation in parties.
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I wouldn't over think it, uni parties tend to be more about finding the most drunk chick going and take her home. Keep your chin up and you'll meet someone
You wear the wall flower drink a few beers and be more aggressive in what you want
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