Girls: When watching a movie with your boyfriend and a naked girl comes on screen,

[Anonymous]

Am I the only one that feels awkward about it? Like you're sitting there as your boyfriend watches some other naked girl run around with her ***** all free. I mean, I'm not a prude, but I just don't feel comfortable watching it too. Is it just me? I mean, in R-rated movies, you never see a naked man, but always a naked woman. I'm not trying to be all sexual-controversy or whatever. But I feel like him seeing other girls **** would take away from him seeing mine.

I don't care if he watches R-rated movies, he's an adult, I just don't like him watching them with me.

Anyone else?

[Gone_But_Not_Lost]

Meh. I don't see the big deal. It's not like nudity in movies even arouses me. Most of the time it's just sorta there. I don't look at these girls and get excited, and if I do, it's not the nudity that does it. It's probably something awesome the girl did in the movie, or a way she said something, and really, you don't need an R or NC17 rating for that. You don't need to get explicit. Even when I am excited, it's nothing personal. It's not like I'm fantasizing about that girl. It's not as if it's anything more than "that was cool!" or "that's really sexy" (or pretty or whatever). Nope.

Furthermore, to answer a question you asked another user, earlier:

"So you wouldn't mind if your girlfriend saw other men's [wang]s? I just want to hear everyone's side about this. :)"

No. I wouldn't mind. Sex is all over the place. Good looking guys are all over the place. Wangs don't scare me off. Even if I were to get jealous or threatened in any way, (which I should remind you, I am not) shouldn't I be more threatened by how handsome, muscular, rich or glamorous they all are? If I had anything their wangs don't seem that threatening by comparison.

But here's the thing, I'm still not bothered. Why? So very many different reasons.

Because I'm sane, just for starters.. I know full well that these people live thousands of miles away, have no connection to me, in any way, and there is nothing that's going to happen between my girlfriend and these prettyboys on the screen. Furthermore even if something could happen, I doubt my girlfriend would go there. Why? Because I trust her. She's been my friend for over 10 years, and she's been with me for over 6. Also, while I'm along those lines of thought, I wanna say that I believe, even if she met guys LIKE the ones on screen (and believe me there are always handsome men in every town) if she could be with them, why isn't she? Think about that. She's with me. Me. She COULD have them (And I totally do believe she could), but she's with me. That says a lot, don't you think?

What about you? Why do you think it takes away from your bits if he sees somebody else's? Why is it so much worse if he's in the room? I mean if you're watching a movie together, it's not as if his eyes are locked on your knockers the whole movie, right? He's just watching a movie. It's just something on the screen. So what is it exactly that has you so uncomfortable? Can you break it down for me in a rational way? In a way that goes beyond "just because" or "because it's wrong"? Because I am telling you now, I WILL have more questions. So can you explain it a little more in detail?

I look forward to your response.

[snowboarder720]

Dude. Maybe next time you post an answer to a simple question... you could just publish a book about it. Then mail it to the question asker... or something...

[Gone_But_Not_Lost]

Sorry, but I find that the simplest questions tend to have longer answers, because there are more things to say to them. I want to cover all basis. Furthermore I wanted to point out, in as many ways possible in a single post, why I think this whole jealousy over a movie seems ridiculous.

[Anonymous]

"You never see a naked man, but always a naked woman." Never?

Here are movies with with male frontal nudity, from the last five years. According to IMDb. link link link link link As well as an incomplete list of movies with full frontal male nudity throughout all time link As well as a similar list from Screened link and if you like, I could also provide you with a video colage, if I didn't think it would get my post deleted. Still, I think I made a point there.

So. "Never" you say? Care to rethink that?

[snowboarder720]

I don't want to click on any of the provided links. I just wanna ask if ANY of them are from the movie The Watchmen? ya know, the movie that's ALL about the giant big blue smurf penis.

[Gone_But_Not_Lost]

None of his provided links have any pictures of penis. They're just lists of movies with male frontal nudity, as he said. Also, no. Watchmen is not on any of those lists from IMDB, but those seem to be about "most popular" however, Watchmen does make it on the Screened list he provided, so, that's definitely there.

[Anonymous]

I can totally relate to you on this! Me and my sister always thought that we were alone on this issue! We both have the same feelings, for me I feel as tho he is looking at these beautiful women and wishing I looked like them. I am a normal women and I have also had 3 kids, so it gets a bit nerve wracking when a movie is full of stunning women. It is a great feeling when I watch a movie with my man and a beautiful man comes on with a beautiful penis, and my man says to me "I bet you wish you had that right now" lol Statements like that make me realize were not the only ones who have these thoughts. :-) What I do now is just focus on the movie and try not to think about the women, plus I know that even tho I look like I do, my man is lucky to have me.

[THChowder]

It doesn't get to me. Because he gets to touch mine. :)

[Gone_But_Not_Lost]

Very nice answer.

[snowboarder720]

for real tho, agreed.

[Jonny_]

Nah it doesn't bother me, then again compared to some of the things I've watched in my lifetime seeing a vagina isn't remotely shocking. Plus it doesn't affect how I see a partner, for one thing if sex was all about the visual aspect for me it'd be a far too shallow relationship for my liking. The whole sexual side of a relationship for me is about intimacy and enjoyment, it's not about superficial sh*t I could care less about...

[Journeyman11]

Nonsense. In horror movies you see dicks and testicles get severed all the time. That's a little worse than just showing her naked, don't you think? And what about this:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Qds06B2vb04

That's pretty humiliating too.

[Otaru]

Haha I remember my ex watching Spartacus show with me and asking me to cover my eyes but that show had lots of it so we eventually didn't care anymore lol

[Anonymous]

It's not that you never see penis in a movie, it's just that you see a lot less of it. Though I still don't know why.

[Anonymous]

It's not like he took his penis out and then immediately went on to crank one out next to you. Get over it.

[Asker]

So you wouldn't mind if your girlfriend saw other men's ****'s? I just want to hear everyone's side about this. :)

[Opinion Owner]

No.

[artfullyliving]

thats the m,ale world of hollywood

[Anonymous]

Get over it. It's just a movie.

[summerlily72]

I am totally with you!

[Anonymous]

Doesn't bother me at all.

[MayTielsen]

hate it