Polls: Society & Politics

a british study of over 3000 women (age 18-64), showed that women can't keep a secret for over an average of 47 hours,( girls really you couldn't make it to 2 days...), the study also showed that

6 out of 10 women will feel guilty after sharing the secret,

8 out 10 womens will share the secret with someone who has nothing to do with matter/who is the closest person to them (usually an other woman)

4 out 10 women say they can't help it no matter how personal the secret is

it seems to me secrets to girls are the equivalent of watching p*rn for guys, longest I'v gone without p*rn... 47 hours lol.

So girls from the UK and allover the world, do you agree with this, explain whether it's a yes or no

So I work with this girl at the bar. She has a boyfriend. I KNOW I KNOW bad idea...anyways she's totally cute, I have a huge crush on her...she doesn't know this tho...

here is my story/questions...she told me she thought I was a stud and very attractive and we flirt EVERY time we work together and every second we can (we work at a bar together). She consistantly asks me if I would date her if she didn't have a boyfriend. She has told my sister she could see herself dating me. She's told my roomates that she would date me...blah blah. When she straight up asked me if I would date her if she was single I kinda brushed it off. Why? Because I'm not the type of guy to barge in a relationship she has been in for 2 years.

What do I think of the situation? I think she's bored of her boyfriend, that she likes the excitment I bring when we work together, the chase, the fun...its just different than what she is used to. I'm 24, she's 22. I don't ask much about her boyfriend, except about his car lol - we both drive the same car and we both ahve put work into it. I do not know him personally, if that matters at all.

Anyways girls/guys how would you take this, how do you see this. Is she just playing games. she's said she is unsure about her boyfriend but I think she just says that to string me along and keep us flirting...i have shown no real indication that iw ould date her or that I take her seriouslty when we flirt because she has a bf...i mean I've never straight up said "i would date you" as she does to me...she is a very flirtatious girl but I can tell she is different around me. Some girl came up to me and I talked to her for a while and she was like so what was that all about? I was like I don't know her friend thinks I'm cute and she wanted me to go over to her later and say what's up, she (the girl I have a crush on) told me that there's no way that girkls friend could think I'm cute because she has already "claimed me".

I love flirting with her and I just don't know what to get out of this...i mean its fun, she's fun, she's different, but the boyfriend is just in teh way and I don't want to be that guy or a rebound if they do break up...how do I go about this situation...how are your eacting to what she is saying to me and my friends...what about her jealousy...girls would you do all of this just for fun and to get a kick out of it...ive clearly shown I'm not desperate, that I can handle not being with her and that I'm independant...i just don't know how to figure this whole thing out, what is she doing here...is she looking for me to say I'd date her and then for her to break up with ehr bf? I don't know much about their relationship otehr than what she says. I'm ust looking for guys/girls insight on this situation and how you would taek what she is saying to me...

thanks in advanced!

So ladies, I've heard a variety of responses on this question in my personal life and now I'm hoping to get a broader perspective.

Once you become "official" with your guy, how long until you want to meet his family/close friends?

For me we have to have been together at least three months before I'll start introducing her to my close friends and generally it has to last around a year before I will introduce her to my family. The latter is because I have a very uncommon family life (brothers are significantly older and married) and it is very complicated to introduce a girl to them all, also I have a niece and nephew, so I really don't want to expose them to anyone unless it is really serious as I don't see them too often due to my career choice.

It's not that I have an issue with meeting their family and friends, I'm just a very private person and cherish those I'm close to. I'd still take her out with friends etc. I just have a few friends that I've known for most of my life and we have an agreement that things have to be going pretty steady before we introduce a girl to one of them.

So ladies, what say you? How long till you want to meet your guy's family?

This girl and I are friends and we were sitting in two chairs right next to each other at an outdoor event with a lot of people sitting down listening to the music and she interlocked arms with me for about 4 minutes, just curious if that is a typical friend thing or not, and it wasn't because we were crowded, cause no on was sitting next to us.

Please list your age as well as answer. Thanks.

personally my choice is alucard... in case you don't know who he is, he's the main character in that anime HELLSING... I choose him because he gets down like no other vampire does. in the hellsing episodes I admire the way he fights as he uses his healing factor, hypnotism, etc to all his advantage. he would taunt his opponents to the fullest forcing them to use everything he/she got on him, eventually leading him to heal his way out of loss and using his hypnotism, and strong powers on his opponents after his opponent being frustrated and exhausted from giving all he/she had.

In the other hand... I'm totally against Edward do to the fact that twilight has made vampires look really FRUITY. plus, Edward does not impress me at all when it comes to his vampire powers and abilities. He is more of a lover then a fighter, one of the top main reasons why I say twilight has made vampires fruity.

those where my opinions... now let hear what you and others have to say...

Before they were cool because they could speak English, but now everyone can speak so the way I see it western women are redundant, they nag, they can't cook, can't clean, don't know how to treat a man, deny sex and are in general nasty human beings. By the way I'm not being racist, this includes anyone born in western countries so even if you look Asian doesn't mean you don't suck

I'm a 26 year old American guy and I'm thinking of moving to Australia later this year. How do you ladies feel about American guys? Some more info about me: I have an engineering degree so I can get good paying jobs pretty easily, I'm a musician, and I consider myself to be a witty/sarcastic/intelligent kind of guy. Let me know if you need to know anything else.

Thanks.

I feel like a lot of things are coming out with apps nowadays...facebook has made it very easy to navigate using their app..I love this site but find a majority of the time I'm on my phone responding or asking..I feel GAG needs to come out with a app, how do you feel?

If you have a favorite scent from a brand, feel free to specify.

Personally, I use:

OLD SPICE ODOR BLOCKER BODY WASH! because Terry Crews' abs told me to.

Old spice Swagger for everything else.

So do girls - and by 'girls' I mean girlfriends, like receiving random gifts from their partner...?

Like is there any limits as-well, is there specific things girls hate and therefore would not want as a random gift?

What should I buy my lady to show my appreciation. Please don't just say jewelry.

I'm thinking if I should or not.

i mean her mom likes me a lot and is really cool

i just don't know what she would say.

i would ask my GF, but she's in Alabama right now and left her phone charger at her house.

would you?

Ladies, do you care what music taste a guy has? If so, what signals do you feel that different music tastes convey? Is music taste a prerequisite to a relationship for you? Do you think that taste in this area is strongly attributed to personality?

Just your general sentiments on the issue would be nice~

Poll question: what is your favorite type of music?

Her attractiveness level is about 20X higher than his. So I always wondered if his excessive wealth had anything to do with their relationship?

I know that life is overall, very hard and tough for everyone, but what makes it more difficult to be Male? and what makes it more difficult to be a Female? But I think both Men and Women have it hard, or easy, just in different ways, like what seems say for Women, is hard for Men, but what is hard for Women, is easy for Men. Anyway, do you think it is more difficult to be a Man or a Woman? and for what reasons?