Excellent question.
First off love isn't about material gift. I am in no way saying that it is, but a sweet little gift now and then is a way of showing you care.
My boyfriend really isn't big on the random gift thing, but if he ever did do something like that I would be on cloud nine.
I do the random gift thing for him every once and a while. Like if I see some small thing I know he would like or something he might need.
For a girl I would say some of the same rules apply. Say you get her something she mentioned liking then she knows you are listening to things she says, it not about the obect it about the fact you cared enough to pay attention.
A single flower left where she can find it is supper sweet too.
They don't have to be expencive gift or big deals, just simple tokens of your love. Even a card with a sweet little verse.
Most any girl would go Ahhhhhhhh and all gooy inside if she knows her boyfriend is thinking of her and showing it in a way that says " I care".
I don't like receiving jewellery worth 1000 pounds or anything too expensive, especially not at the beginning. A chocolate box, a soft toy or a letter in which he says he loves me seem nice to me, as would be something he knows I wanted to have for a while.
To me, it means he cares and thinks about me. Which is always a good thing. Why would it be creepy ?
If she's not a complete freak in bed, try not to buy her raunchy underwear. And, to be honest, I wouldn't advise jewellery. It's way overboard ... plus, she might have a totally different taste than you (after all, you're two different genders).
What would I hate? Not much, as mostly any gift is nice. Just don't be silly and go buy her crayons or something too "practical", with no sentimental value.
As for most other things, go for it. :)
I am sure she'll be happy.
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Honestly I don't like getting tons of gifts. It makes me feel like the guy just feels obligated and less like he didn't just because he wanted to.
I don't care for expensive things though that's definitely like the case for all girls.
I like the idea of getting a love letter. I've tried to sit down and write a love letter once; it's not easy to put into words how you feel about someone you love. If you write a letter, it means you care and took time on the gift.
If you don't want to write a letter, just do something special and original. try to give her something that wouldn't be a universal gift that any guy could give to a girl.
I'm one of those girls where I love random gifts, as random gifts. If my boyfriend bought me a coffee roll and it put a bow on it, I would love it.
1) Because he knows what I like 2) Because he actually listens to what I say
So if she said "Ohhh I need some eyeliner" or something along those lines, go out and get it for her. Even if you don't know what brand or color, get something that you would like to see her wear. And just tell her that you thought this color would make her bring out what ever it is in her face.
yeah definitely. I love it if we were talking about something and a few months later he sees something that reminds him of that conversation and he gets it for me. it shows he listens and that he cares
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