What would you think of a girl joining a boys wrestling team (hs)?

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

Go for it! Don’t let anything hold you back from attacking your dreams. When I wrestled with the boys there were a few who didn’t like it, but most recognized it was a competition and I was just another competitor. Two things for advise: first, don’t try to take advantage of being a girl by taking cheap shots at their junk. Win fair or lose fair but always fair! And second, if any of them try to cheap shot you by groping you inappropriately tell the ref. (Also final thing, some guys you wrestle will get hard ons. Just ignore it. Usually that will go away from the guy focusing the on wrestling once the match starts)

p. s. to the guy complaining about being embarrassed by getting pinned by a girl-you should’ve trained harder, practiced harder, and wrestled harder. She did and that’s why she pinned your ass!

[Person234]

I am a guy varsity wrestler and I’ve gone against a lot of girls. I have some stories about dirty plays and I’d like to hear your thoughts and advice. I’ve won almost every match I’ve had against girls because I have a strong tall build and I was able to overpower them easily. I’ve only lost 2 matches and in both of those it was because the girl aimed for my package. As you know the singlet is revealing and it gives my opponents a target, also fortunately (and unfortunately in the case of wrestling) my package is really big so it sticks out and hangs down a lot in the singlet making it an easy target (I’m like really sensitive there bc it’s so big it sucks). In both matches I lost I would have won easily if it wasn’t for the dirty plays.

1. The first match I lost against a girl I was winning easily the whole match. I was even able to pick her up easily. I wanted to put her away quickly so I picked her up so that she was facing sideways across my body so that I could slam her onto her back to knock the breath out of her and quickly get the pin but before I could do this she formed her hand into a fist while I was picking her up about to slam her and she practically punched me in the balls and unfortunately hit me right in the most sensitive part of my package that hangs down from the rest of my body (my balls). I dropped her and went to the mat holding my package. I wasn’t able to slam her so she didn’t take that long to recover and she wasn’t winded bc there was no slam but she still took a few seconds to get her bearings before crawling over to me quickly and simply getting on top of me while I was still clutching my package trying to massage the pain away.. I was powerless after that shot. I would have won easily if it wasn’t for that I was controlling her no problem the whole time. After she pinned me it took me almost a full minute to recover so that I could stand up for the ref to raise her hand to signal victory. (Part 1/2)

[Person234]

(Part 2/2)

2. In the second match I lost against A girl I was also a lot stronger. This time I actually did manage to pick her up and slam her to the mat. But I did it in a way that she landed on her stomach. She got the wind knocked out of her and I got on top of her. She was stunned so she didn’t move for about 15 whole seconds (which is eternity in wrestling match time) I got my hands into the positions they needed to be to flip her quickly so she couldn’t escape. Suddenly I felt her moving again and I felt her heel hit my package. I grimaced and was stunned. I was having trouble fighting through the pain to flip her. But Ok, NBD I thought it was probably an accident but then I felt her heel start tapping around there and when she tapped the bit that was hanging down a lot and she slammed it into my package AGAIN right in my balls. This time it was really hard and I rolled off of her clutching my package. She took a few seconds and got on top of me. I couldn’t fight back since my hands were massaging myself there. I lost. I stayed on the mat for about 30 seconds before I could get back up.

The ref didn’t notice both times and by the way in my other matches I won the girls also were trying to grab and hit me there but I was able to avoid them. I almost lost a 3rd match to a girl after suffering a hit there but the round ended right on time so I had a chance to recover and came back and won. What do you suggest I do to avoid strikes There as a wrestler? Is there any training I can do? I’ve won a lot of matches against girls it’s just the few times they get me there it ruins it for me and by the way I don’t want to wear a cup bc it can easily get displaced in a sport like wrestling with all the rubbing and if it gets dislodged it’s really hard to fix in the moment. I lift weights and am really fit and strong but I want to learn how to better avoid hits there.

[MysteriousDarkness]

@Person234
You make it seem as if your dick was hanging out of your singlet while you were wrestling which it wasn't. The reason is if it was hanging out they would have made you put something on to cover it up or not have allowed you to wrestle.
You make it seem as if one of the women pulled her arm back and sucker punch you in your cock & balls which I doubt happened because the match would have been stopped.
You nake it seem as if one of the women was just digging her heel into your cock & balls which made you roll of off her and hold your cock & balls with both hands without the ref stopping the match.
You are trying to make up excuses as to why you lost.

[itsjustlew]

If you want to do a contact sport I recommend football. I was so upset at my mom when she didn’t allow me to join the wrestling team in 8th grade. I know understand she did it to protect me. I’ve always been a strong tomboyish girl, I dress feminine and act more feminine now but I still have that side of me. I loved climbing and wrestling my cousin and stuff like that and I was strong enough to make it forsure, but that wasn’t the problem. Whenever a guy is on top of you when wrestling while your both wearing tight uniforms it’s not really a good idea because it could make him hard then be really awkward. It’s just the way body chemistry works. I think football would be a better option if you want a rough contact sport because they aren’t pressed up against you in tight outfits.

[ThisIsMyOpinion]

If it is a boys only team then no. If it is a team that happens to have only boys so far then yes, don't see why not.

I did karate for a few years when I was younger and we had a big dojo With many girls. When I was like 11 fighting boys or girls of my age wasn't very different. And I lost a few times to them.

When I became 14 things didn't worked like that anymore. Puberty and testosterone start to kick in and unless the girls had much more training than the boy they were facing they had little to no chance.

As unfair as that is biology can be one hell of an handicap. So if you are 15 or above joining the team might not be the best idea...

[American_Centurion]

Go for it. Usually when puberty kicks in the boys get stronger and faster while the girls barely do. There was a girl on my middle and high school wrestling team as well as on the soccer team. As the boys got older they found themselves unable to compete and were benched.
If there's no girls team for them to join its fine but boys should be allowed to join girls sports teams and compete in female sports competitions if girls can compete in male competitions as it's only fair.

[The_little_gay_robin]

I wasn't allowed to join the team but I did practice with them and won a fair amount of the time. Wrestling secret, it's about leverage, speed, and stamina, not brute strength. Muscle only helps if you know how to use it. Ask any teacher of jujitsu and they'll tell you the same thing.

[BloJo]

I do not mind girls playing on boys teams, if they are good enough to compete. I do not think that boys should be allowed to join girls teams.

For example: I was never good enough to start on the boys’ basketball team. But I was 5’9” tall before I turned fourteen. No middle school girls’ teams had anyone near my height. If I had been allowed to play in their league, I would have started every game. If I had been allowed to play, other boys would have wanted to play. Eventually, it would have been another boys’ league.

Unfortunately, the question is about high schoolers. A girl on the team would require different coaches and female chaperones while traveling. Most high schools do not have enough money to cover the added expenses that making the team coed would cost.

[Breanna_nonbinary]

I think it’s sexy. A girl that can assert herself is fabulously sexy and build confidence. If you don’t join the boys team there are probably other coed teams in your area since girls in wrestling is on the rise. Good luck. Feel free to message me if you like.

[adamski24]

Exactly,

[nathanp97]

If I was on any of the other wrestling teams and had to face her I wouldn't. It is a loose loose situation. Either I win and get hated on for fighting a girl or I loose and get laughed at for loosing to a girl. Get your own wrestling team going. It looks way better on a resume that you started your own competitive team in highschool than it does just joining one.

I don't have an issue with the idea of girls wrestling, just not in the same league as men.

[Emily-Bunny]

i would think she is going to be outclassed completely

i think she will only win matches if put up against someone at her exact weight and height

women and men should be kept separate so they have fair competition, girls on average way a lot less than males and are a lot smaller so i don't think its fair to put girls up against guys

[saltydaxmok_tANKer]

I think its unneeded. 👽 We all know that men are born with more strength than women so be it- I love women, don't hurt yourself just to prove that women are strong or something, we are all better in something not based on gender but just stay out of this and stay safe, no need comparison, if you're good at it than you're, if not its better to stfu 👌🏻

[Mayank_Lad]

Attitude like that in a woman is rare nowadays. I like such sense of acceptance!

[Freddy78361]

I support it. Women/girls should have the sames opportunities to try and achieve a goal as men/boys. If they want to wrestle with boys then we should allow it.
If a guy cops a feel he will likely lose the match because he isn't focusing on the sport. Or she will knee him in the crotch. Either way it's good.

[continentalbreakfast]

They have wrestling near by that I watched once, highschool age I think, maybe older. Most male. And 3 female. Seemed cool. And honestly didn't look like anyone was taking it easier on the other.
Also those girls were pretty smart and lucky to join 😆 they got to touch all those guys

[NYCQuestions1976]

If there isn't a girls' team (which there probably isn't, because I'm sure there isn't enough girls in enough schools interested in wrestling to create a league), and the girl in question is talented enough to compete on the boys' team, then it's fine. If she tries out for the boys' team and gets her ass handed to her, then the question answers itself. She can't be allowed to take a spot on the team "just because she's a girl".

[Reaperbot666]

if she proves capable of meeting the standard the whole team has to meet. then I see no issue with it really.

[adamski24]

wouldn't think much about when I was at school we had mixed teams for things no one really thought about or noticed or cared.
it was almost the norm for it to happen and be in the same locker and shower room miss out before and after games for team talks.
took a while for some of the others to get used to changing and showering the other genders

[bamesjond0069]

A dyke and an asshole.

What girl would want to do that except a dyke?

Also its really awkward to hurt a girl that way, you're making the men very uncomfortable maybe equivalent to like saying men can go in the womens locker rooms. Would you like any man who wants to just stare at you naked? Its like on that level because just as girls would refuse to change at all some men will refuse to fight you at all and they will be punished for it.

[jgokgotit]

Not a fan of it. Boys and girls grow at different rates and their bodies develop differently. Also, the boy either has to throw the fight and get bullshit for losing or try to win against the girl and get bullshit for going all out against a girl.

[godfatherfan]

1) I think not everything in life needs to be coed.
2) I would be very concerned. There is a lot of grabbing all over in wrestling. Sorry, but teen guys are going to take advantage of that and she would get groped all the time, everywhere.

[boycatcher2006]

She should join. If the boys don't like it it's their problem. There's no reason not to join

[jgibsonian1986]

It usually sucks because their center of balance is lower, so you have to wrestle that one girl so much differently than everyone else you will end up developing a style just for wrestling women.

[IM_BLANK]

Hey I don't judge you do you I mean I'd personally would pop a feel but because that's what guys do with guys we smack each other's assess and grab and pinch each other's nipples well that's what me and my friends do at foot ball practice it's part of the practice we fuck around but don't worry we have our socks on and we say "no homo" so we ain't gay

[MysteriousDarkness]

@IM_BLANK
Doing homosexual stuff makes you at least bisexual. Saying no homo means nothing to me since actions speak louder than words. Guys who willingly do homosexual stuff think they are still heterosexual if they say no homo. Here is an example so you understand what I am saying. If a guy goes out in public wearing womens clothes willingly and then says no crossdressing or that he is not crossdressing does not take away the fact he was crossdressing.

[IM_BLANK]

Have you ever played sports? Like it's a football thing dumbass

[KatQueen1313]

Girls should be able to wrestle but with girls in similar weight groups. I also think that football leagues should be created for women only in addition to the all-male football leagues.

[adamski24]

Why not have mixed teams

[KatQueen1313]

@adamski24 It's more for the safety of the girls.

[adamski24]

I suppose

[jessicarosen]

I don't see an issue with it. It is just a wrestling team. I know some high schools don't have a boys volleyball team, so any boys wanting to play have to play on the girls team. Again, it's not a big issue.

[Anonymous]

good times. all the girls i knew that wrestled, really loved it. The guys on the teams are pretty good at sticking up for a girl that's part of the team. But just depends. There's always the possibility of getting stuck on a team with a bunch of people who think girls don't belong. But I'm sure you can win them over if they see how hard you work at practices.