What does it mean when they say this?

[Anonymous]

They put a post on Facebook saying I will always remember us this way

I was in a gym and on Instagram and Facebook of my review I gave

they said to DM Them

i left because of a weird situation

its brought back a lot of painful memories

[Fanfare690]

I dont want to get involved in situations that dont necessarily involve me. So instead of trying to dig deeper into a situation you're totally unaware of. Your feelings are valid and I love that you trusted your judgement to separate yourself from weird mfs. You deserve to be treated right and weird people need to always be avoided. And I'm mostly talking about weird energy

[Fanfare690]

I think they may be concerned of your review or like the review you gave but you didn't put what was said?

[Asker]

I just said the gym was great and the trainers were i leave feeling motivated and happy and it was like my second home

Until you know took a turn …I didn’t even see it coming totally unexpected

[Fanfare690]

Oh! Well maybe they wanna hook you up with a free member ship during trial or something. Sorry jumped to conclusions lol at first this sounded so dark

[Asker]

That’s fine

I wonder does it mean they’ll want to make things up
It was just out of the blue for me I’m moving on … doing my healing and then all of a sudden you know

[Fanfare690]

I mean what does this all mean to you? Tell me.
Then tell me how it made you feel

[Asker]

I’m not sure confusing I do miss it but remember most of the pain

[Fanfare690]

Sis what pain? What happened

[Asker]

He just started saying I would cancel classes to get a one on one session
He said he thought I had more feelings for him but I don’t he is gay and I have a new boyfriend

I told him my grandad passed away and he said he didn’t need to know that stuff

[Fanfare690]

LOL he's a stalker sis

[Fanfare690]

he's a weird AVOID

[Asker]

Yes that’s why It’s Very confusing

He litteraly said I was looking to see if you would cancel if someone else booked in but I don’t who books in to the classes ….

So very manipulating

[Fanfare690]

He seems to like you but he's not worth it. Many juice heads arnt

[Asker]

He is GAY!! Apparently

That’s why I am so confused by the post they put up

[Fanfare690]

Why you think he's gay lol

[Fanfare690]

You telling at me and with the same voice you unsure

[Fanfare690]

Make it make sense!!

[Asker]

If you saw his instagram you would know he is gay !

I’m unsure because it was him that hurt me but at the same time i miss the gym for me and mental health you know …

[Asker]

To me when someone says

I will always remember us this way
I take that they miss that person I could be wrong

[Fanfare690]

Was it good between y'all than sure... I see but maybe he's feminine... what makes him gay is he poking his ass out?

[Fanfare690]

Maybe he's bisexual

[Asker]

You could be right maybe he is bisexual

Would you go back? Would you DM THEM?

[Fanfare690]

FUCK NAH I went through so much drama at my other gym I loved. I went their to relieve my anxiety only to be welcomed with people who had entitlement and aggressive communication skills I wasn't comfortable with AT ALL. They won't leave me be 😭
So no💜

[Asker]

So sorry you went through that

I’ve no intention of going back or DMing then

I kind of feel like they are only doing it to get people into there gym and to make them looked good sooo Nah

Karma is a you know what …

[Fanfare690]

Hell yea I agree 100%

[Asker]

He is just manipulative

[Fanfare690]

Seems like it.

[Asker]

We learn lessons right? It’s really painful but I’ve learned mine ! As hard as it is

We deserve better

[Guy13]

It seems like you exemplified good judgment removing yourself from a potential problem situation. That's a High Value character trait.

[Asker]

Yeah definitely still sucks that’s life

What does it mean to you when someone says I will always remember us this way

To me it’s like they have regret could Miss friendship

To be honest it’s quite personal to put something like that up