its not that way for most guys.
Why do women like to travel so much?
its not that way for most guys.
I absolutely hate traveling. I hate being away from home, hate change in routine and a lack of familiarity, and really have no interest to see the rest of the world. Where I am is completely fine.
I also don't see the point in traveling and sight seeing when you can never get a good view anyway. If I wanted to see the Eiffel Tower, for instance, I could just Google a picture of it that will be a much better view than I could possibly get of it in person. One of the last times I ever went on vacation somewhere, I had to stand on my tip toes just to see the attractions while everyone in front of me was also on their tip toes and had their hands in the air with their phones and cameras, blocking the view. It was totally not worth it and I regretted not just watching the event on TV as I previously had.
Oh, and I forgot to mention: actually preparing for the trip and getting to your destination, dealing with luggage, finding a hotel, etc. are all really stressful to me as well. I'm also never completely comfortable in a hotel (though I always sleep well because I'm weird and stress makes me sleepy, so I get the best, deepest sleep when I'm stressed). It just feels weird to stay in a completely strange place.
Guys are the same almost every guy on tinder says they love travelling and talk about it as if it’s a lifestyle and not just a holiday. I don’t get it really and it’s so annoying. I mean everyone likes holidays including me but why can’t people just be happy in their home town? Most people only have a few weeks of holidays per year and they treat it as if that’s their whole life.
Don't let tinder fool you. Most guys like the idea of travel but would rather just be with you wherever you may go.
Exactly, those aren't really the guys that stay with a girl long anyway, it's always just about picking up the girls. All flash no stash
Triggered! Lol. I dont give a crap about holidays.
They don't understand or realize that in the real world you have to work for a living, go to work every day, pay your bills, pay your rent, pay your car payment, pay for groceries and have a bit left over to go out and have some fun with. Then repeat week after weak. Some women seem to think it is ok to accumulate massive debt and be a flake and travel to see the world while, somehow, someone else pays for it. They don't worry about saving for a future because a lot of women want to find a rich man to marry who will father their children and pay for everything and make him go to work while she continues to flake out and never have to worry about money or pulling her weight in life financially.
They bore easily.. women like to be doing things, that's just how they are, generally, even if it means, trolling at 1230 at night
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I agree with DeeDeeDuVour. I know many guys who like to travel.
For me, I had a near death experience that has made traveling one big contradiction for me haha. One part of me wants to go out and experience everything, and the other part of me is anxious about being too far from home in case something goes wrong. However, I will say that traveling has made me feel much more connected to the world around me. For example, I visited St. Thomas a year before the major hurricane hit. When the hurricane devastated the island, I felt very connected to it and had a level of compassion I may not have had otherwise.
Well, there are two types of people who like to travel, and they are not men and women.
1. The ones who want the instagrams to reflect one flawless moment in time.
2. The ones who do it for the experience.
I'm in the second group. I travel because it exposes me to situations I have yet to learn. I do it for the funny memories at midnight in another place, for the different people you meet, and because I often get lost and find the way back to myself. It's a reminder of getting out of my comfort zone.
Shit I absolutely love to travel. Especially with my lady love it allows us to experience some of the most beautiful things that most will Never even get to see in magazines and movies. Imagine the memories created between the both of you that you can have for s lifetime. You would be the envy of all your friends family and more especially if you find compromise and fairness. Cause honestly you're not gonna find everything appealing she does and vice versa. But always stay on common ground and all will be well. And never be negative or critical about what she likes even if you don't. I'm not saying lie but tell her honey if you love it then I love it with you. Hell have her explain what it is an you just might change your outlook. But no matter what always be supportive that's what what real love is built on compromise.
Men tend to include multiple dependents into their plans and tend to plan much further distances into the future. 20-40 years. They have boring 9-5s that only afford them 2 weeks off a year, and elaborate vacations will could setback their long-term fiscal goals by significant amounts of time.
Many women on the other had, are 100% completely dependent on men. They don't have as much experience supporting themselves single-handedly in the adult world. As such they view money completely differently. They are also more concerned with their image and what other people think of them. As such they tend to make more expensive, shorter-term, immediately gratifying decisions. All of their friends on social media have pictures of doing those cliche yoga poses on a beach. She needs one to compete!
If mens' wives paid all the bills, planned and funded all of their trips, they'd love to travel too!
Women love to travel, because they're not footing the bill.
Wha? I've never experienced it like that. I've met lots of guys who love to travel. I was always attracted to travellers, and I guess vice versa. It's a great time to do it in the 20s, if one can. It expands one's mind and this curiosity and more acceptance of other cultures (and even domestic geography) is very appealing to future partners.
It's fun? Why would you not like to travel to the extraordinary places in the world? You get to see new things and explore. I don't know why a lot of men you know don't like to.
All the people I know do because it's a breathe of fresh air to see new scenery and people.
Luckily for you I also have a degree in Statistics. Because you have met a few women who like to travel (lets say plenty. let's say 100 women and only 1 doesn't like to travel) doesn't mean that most women do. Maybe you live in a place where traveling is a major thing.
In fact, I can say that most girls I know, don't travel that much. Does it mean anything on the general public? obviously no. Maybe it just means that I hang in circles where traveling is less common.
WHERE do you LIVE because I wanna meet these folks.
Here it seems that the majority of women want to stay within the same 100 mile radius and the guys can't wait to run all over the world. For a guy who wants a traveling partner as a /partner/ that sucks lol
Because the women know they will be able to spend someone elses money to do the travelling whereas the men know they will likely have to pay to bring someone with them.
My experience is, that more men than women are outgoing and like to travel and often times i see that women value marriage and kids more than traveling.
My experience is that way more women than men accustom to and stay in whatever place they were born in and lived, be it a good country to live in or a dictator country.
Let's not generalize that guys don't like to travel a lot. Most of the men I know are always "on the go" to various & distant places. Personally, I enjoy sight-seeing & learning more about the places I visit.
Because we all read the same magazines, watch the same shows, follow the same trends, and travelling is "what you do", to become interesting, to become a person that has "seen the world".
It's an attempt at creating an identity for ourselves.
Guys are not as conform as girls. And that's ok.
Lots of guys do to, but to answer your question I’d say women tend to be more inclined to focus more on experiences than wealth
Because staying in one's native country forever is boring, I want to experience different cultures and places.
Your less ignorant when you travel and learn about new places, cultures, ways of life. It can also be fun and stimulating.
Hormones drive traveling. Once those hormones drop and they get older such there isn't their dream man on the other side of the planet anymore they will lose that urge. The more you travel the more you hate it.
Because they're running from themselves. Lol no seriously, even guys like traveling. I know I'm crazy about it. I think most people like seeing new and different places and cultures.
Because A. they love to virtue signal about how much they love foreign cultures and B. it is easier to bang a billion men until 30 and then go back home find the richest blue-pilled cuck and portray the loyal traditional wife.
Really? I wanna see things i have never seen before.
I haven't noticed a gender difference in that yet. But either way, I'd rather be surprised about people who don't like to travel!
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