Are you a city or town kind of person?

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I’m definitely a city person. I like getting lost amongst loads of people and seeing new faces all the time.

I also like having many options and taking on a new adventure every day. Otherwise I’ll get bored quite easily.

NewgodX · Accepted Answer

I was in a small port town it didn't have many schools and I walked to school cox you either needed your own vehicle which my family could not afford back then or use public transport which was not present
Now I live in a mega city
I like all areas once in a while I take a trip to a remote location where I don't have to come across many human faces

AlexanderAnttila · Accepted Answer

I prefer the middle ground as I currently live. Out on the countryside so that I have nature and calm around me, but close by to the cities so that I don't feel isolated and can choose to get into the hustle and bustle when I want to.

Lliam · Answer

I have come to prefer the country, near nice towns with cities not too far away.

I grew up in a suburb of Los Angeles, not far from the ocean. Back then, there were dairies, farms and orchards all around. It felt like a combination of city and country. Big city attractions were nearby. New theme parks like Knott's Berry Farm, Disneyland, Santa's Village sprouted up in the 50s. Universal Studios opened in the mid-60s. So all of that stuff was fresh when I was a kid in the 60s. Everything was geared toward family fun. There were also world class museums, zoos, aquariums, arboretums, botanical gardens and other things for families.

In my early teens, my sister and I liked to go to Hollywood Blvd to see real live hippies and browse for posters, incense, incense holders, peace sign medallion on chains and stuff like that in head shops.

There are lots of entertainment venues in cities. I went to all of them to see music when I was in my late teens and twenties. I also started discovering ethnic food and loved the variety of wonderful restaurants. Every variety of goods and services were also available.

So those things, for me, are the advantages of cities. There is lots to see and do.

What I don't like is noise, traffic, neon, crass commercialism, dance clubs, crowds, and poverty stricken neighborhoods.

I actually enjoyed living in the L. A. area. Among all the other things, there were mountains, deserts and amazing beaches within easy driving distance.

In 2000, my wife and I moved to northern California and sort of accidentally wound up in a rural area. 25 minutes in one direction are two very dynamic adjoining towns in the mountains. They are historic with cute architecture, but there is an amazing amount of culture, from live theater and music to events like World Fest, the Celtic Festival and the County Fair a the fairgrounds. Even famous bands come to the town. There are some really good places to eat, too, although lacking the variety of a big city. My wife works there and we both got very involved in activities. I got more involved in things and made more friends in those towns than I did in all my life in the city.

25 minutes in the other direction, there is a small city that lacks in culture but has lots of big box stores, restaurant chains, fast food and a mall.

We are about an hour away from Sacramento and other sprawling, adjoining cities. Lake Tahoe and Reno are 2-3 hours away in one direction, and Napa-Sonoma and San Francisco are about the same distance in the opposite direction.

But I have to say that I LOVE my home in the country, surrounded by farms, ranches, horse property, wild areas, rivers, lakes and creeks. I like having deer, wild turkeys, quail and lots of birds visit our property. We see foxes, raccoons, skunks, squirrels, jackrabbits, and even bobcats. I love the bees, butterflies, snakes, frogs, lizards and other critters. Nature fills me with peace, awe and gratitude.

When I travel, I might go to big cities and tourist destinations to see art, architecture, and places of historical significance. But I am more drawn to ancient towns and traditional ways of life when I travel to other countries. And I really enjoy New England and other parts of the U. S.

t-8900 · Answer

I prefer anything but the inner city areas as they tend to be higher in crime and well, overall misery according to polls. Humans need room to breath and quiet time and well, not smelling exhaust 24/7. I would like to visit a city, sure. But not stay and certainly not with so much poverty, crime, and unrest going on right now. A see a lot of potential for good in city life but not as things currently are. No amount of multicultural cuisine and fun shopping experiences are worth that type of hassle.

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

I live in a small city located in Southwestern Pennsylvania called Monongahela Pa USA
the population is like a little over 3000 but there are other small cities that are connected to ours such as Finleyville, Donora, Monessen, Charleroi, etc like
where I live we have downtown McDonald's, KeyBank, PNC Bank,
we have women barbers, We have Angelos Restuarant, Small stores
we have Rite-Aid Pharmacy & Store but the prices are outrageous
there is Dierken's Pharmacy which is one I use also there is Span & Taylor
pharmacy, We have Eat n Park, Dollar General, Family Dollar, Foodland

AmandaYVR · Answer

I agree with you. I'm city too. Although I don't like concrete much and need a lot of greenery around me too. I'm big into trees. But I want all the things that cities provide.
I like your write-up. Very good. 🤛

ohshee · Answer

If I'm on a vacation I like cities and I like towns otherwise I like to Country I love being outdoors and I can always find something to do.
But on vacation or something or traveling I love to stop at thrift stores and things like that I tried to find something unique and different
And no matter where I go or what I do I'm always looking at people I'm always looking into their eyes or there smile

Andres77 · Answer

Country.
If you pull into my driveway the shotgun is out and we're holding the dog back.
If you know me then you sent me a text before you ever showed up. My kid's friend's parents know this.
My kids friend's parents also know that when their kids stay over that their kids are probably safer here than in their own home.

MCheetah · Answer

I like the city more, even though I realize the people may be worse. It's mostly about convenience and cheaper cost of living.

SpiderManFan2002 · Answer

What’s the difference between the two? Where I’m from the two terms are used quite interchangeably🙃

kellytheman · Answer

Yeah I am a city person if I live in a small town or out in the country it be very boring and I probably had sex with every girl in town already lol.

Crazybeeguy · Answer

Smaller towns, cities have their place as a cultural hub, but towns. Mostly towns are more friendly if you live somewhere lomg enough the people become like family.

Kaneki05 · Answer

City, though i don't imagine liking big cites like the whole new york not countryside.  Cites in england aren't that big. And yes london is annoying, so nvm new york.

Cnlngler · Answer

I live in a city but I wished I lived in a town, I like knowing everyone and I would be more suitable in a town. As long as there's a beach nearby I would be blessed. If I had wealth i would live in a town.

FatherJack · Answer

Even though I live in a city , grew up in countryside , then town. If it wasn't for my daughter , I would be out of here and somewhere far more secluded in a flash. Not fond of people , most are self centered / absorbed.

Nomina · Answer

A town person. Slower pace, people are kinder, less noise and it's easier to find a large place with a garden.

DeeDeeDeVour · Answer

I/We wanna move away from the suburbs of the metropolis to a quaint li'l town up in the mountains or by the ocean.

Prettygurl12 · Answer

Country.  I'm not even a town person. Town has too many people.

sarahlumpkin · Answer

I say this since my home town of Springfield, MO is an intermediate metro area and more of everything is there.

Redstang88 · Answer

Small town. Cities have their perks for sure, but I hate people. Give me a few good friends and 1 decent place to eat and I’m a happy camper

Morgador · Answer

I grew up in a small farm ranching town them moved out to the city. I'm so tired of the city, so I bought property out in the middle of nowhere so that I can have a place to getaway

rcljr · Answer

Rural as F, if there’s more than 10 people in a town I head for the woods

zagor · Answer

More a 'burb kind of person. I like the things to do in cities but don't want to live in a stack of people. Give me some space.

TheBigGuy9 · Answer

When you’re young you’re mostly city and su turn. When you’re older, it’s usually country.

Lisa_97 · Answer

city but i would love to be in town once every month

Flower7 · Answer

I like cities better. Small towns are weird.

WowwGirl · Answer

I can't function in a city

zaharuh · Answer

I think I'm both but more of a city girl right now

exitseven · Answer

I am just a small town guy.

Fireguy17 · Answer

Country. Too many people in the city.

Phoenix98 · Answer

Small town guy I honestly loathe cities.

Wise4myage · Answer

Town, I'm a country boy for life.

Joshua0213 · Answer

Town cause fuck people

jasco · Answer

Town back woods type of guy

najekim · Answer

We prefer towns with 30k-40K people in the area.

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

Definitely city. The bigger the better.

Adam_West · Answer

oh nigga im a real city person yo

Sidfawy · Answer

Any place with minimum people,

Tstrbrainer · Answer

Both are same, right?

serious · Answer

City for sure.

eagle1951 · Answer

i'm country all the way

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

I'm a city boy

IncognitoBandito · Answer

Townie

msc545 · Answer

city here.

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