Girls, how would I convince my wife to go to a nudist resort with me?

[Oldstink]

We are early 40's and have been married 10 years. Something I always wanted to do but never brought up to her

[SueShe]

I have always failed to understand why people are so adamant about "convincing" their partner or others to do something that they are not really motivated to do.

If you have the urge to convince, motivate or otherwise force or coerce her to do something that she is not willing to do, then you are living a toxic relationship.

It should be clear to you by now that she is not interested in losing her dignity, self-esteem, and self-value. You must have talked about that topic with her and she must have clearly indicated that this is not something she is comfortable doing.

Furthermore, those guys that want to visit nudist resorts actually want to perv on nude girls and not really go because they think it is healthy.

[Nikki1989]

You don't. Most people have more self-respect than to go to one of those perv traps.

[tanya_s21]

Just don't go if she is not comfortable