Have you ever been asked out on Valentine’s Day?

[scott04sa22]

[Joker_]

I have been asked out on Valentine's Day ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎ ‎‎‎‎‎‎

[InferiorElegy]

Nope, I've only ever gotten a few pity Valentine's cards in elementary school, the kind where parents tell the kids to hand them out to everyone in class, most of mine were also from other guys in class. last card I got was from a girl who was in my grade 8 class, I wasn't friends with her but she was in my limited social circle because of some people I considered friends at the time and she told me all the guys were getting one and she didn't want to make me feel left out. She took pity on me. but I've never been asked on a date especially as a guy and the fact that I'm ugly and people have made it a point to tell me everyday my entire life.

[Orne24]

I don't think your ugly, we are all beautiful inside out and whoever said those mean words is an asa.

[InferiorElegy]

@Orne24 "friends", family and pretty much every single female I've asked out plus random strangers. This includes females from Facebook support groups who convinced my stupid ass to a video call just to be given a dirty looks and ghosted. It's kind of you to say I'm not ugly but if you saw my face you'd now I am.

[Orne24]

But don't look down on your self, you might find someone before that doesn't judge you because you your physical appearance.

[InferiorElegy]

@Orne24 I gave upon looking for any kind of relationship a while back because of various reasons but a big one was just that all I've ever been was rejected and it got to a point where the rejection started to hurt me physically, plus it's just less depressing for me to not try anymore, I'm still depressed for sure but I don't have the depression of rejection anymore. If a girl came around and asked me out, for sure I'd be happy to say yes but at the same time I'd be very guarded as the last time it happened it was a mean prank, but I also don't think it would ever happen, at least not by September.

[Cynicaldreamer]

Never. I think that's why I'm so indifferent towards that day- I'm used to not being asked out the other 364 days of the year.
But not being asked out on Valentine's day just further confirmed how no one saw me as attractive 😒

[Gwenhwyfar]

Yes.

[JBlade]

Nope, could never even imagine that happening. Sounds like a fairy tale to me.

[Orne24]

Freaks like me don't get asked. We are simply ignored. But I'm cool about it.

[Likes2drive]

Never and have never been asked out on any other day either

[Iron_Man]

No my girlfriend live with me

[Bluemax]

Yes, decades ago.

[DeeDeeDeVour]

Often

[fonduegirl]

Never ever ever

[magiusX26]

never

[Alyssa_11]

No 😭😭😭

[grega239]

Of course not

[devoygf]

never have I ever

[QuietRunner]

no I have not