Hey y’all so my boyfriend and I been dating for going on 4 years this year. First year was rough and we fought through it to be together. (I have trust issues so that was tough to work through) anyways faithful loving guy and it seems that this year he has been not into Valentine’s Day, he got me flowers and my favorite candy and chocolate covered strawberries and took me to dinner. He said he didn’t want to exchange gifts (we came back from Disneyland in January) so I said okay fine. We celebrated Valentine’s Day on Saturday because I have clinicals and yeah so today he just texted me in the morning saying “ morning pook” I said “ morning babe happy Valentine’s day” he didn’t respond I was like fine he never usually does he’s busy at work. Calls me later and I ask for a love letter or text and he says well “ it’s all the same stuff babe I tell you all the time” but if it makes you feel better ok. To be fair I always need a lot of attention and love and I ask “ do you love me a lot and he’s not a words of affirmation guy. In the beginning he would go all out now it’s died down I don't know guys what do you think?
Guys, Does this mean he doesn’t love me anymore?
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Also he’s jehovah witness so he doesn’t celebrate the holidays just for me
What Guys Said
Sounds like serious differences to me. I don’t know. You two going to have to figure this one out.
I dont think the love is dying, I think he is just following the path of least resistance; the bare minimum has been enough to keep the relationship going, so why go the extra mile? Plus, if he's not able to go all out this year with gifts for you, then he may be having feelings of inadequacy.
Guys vibe off their girlfriends energy a lot if you aren't enthusiastic about an event upcoming guys will match your energy in a very mutual sense. If he senses your not gonna do something special then he's gonna match the energy.