Do you give your partner a Valentine card?

[Anonymous]

I mean in long time married relationship

I don't want to, but I feel I have to 🙂

Updates

10 mo

Folks I did give her a cardShe didn't give me oneBut she did say thanks for the cardI think she appreciated itSo thanks for the advice. Especially bumble bee 🐝 And next step... To start talking to her

[MillieBee1993]

When I had a partner, I did!
I am a very crafty / artsy person, who would go ALL out for every holiday, including Valentines and Birthday! I would even make him home made cinnamon rolls before he left for work at 6am! I was dedicated lol
I think it's optional, and no pressure to get your loved one a card. Maybe a nice deed, like a movie night in, making breakfast for your S/O, or even just spending the day with one another doing something fun, celebrate it YOUR way :)

[Asker]

Well if she gets me one but I don't get her one
Looks bad

[Asker]

I did

I voted b

Which was the popular option

Who are these girls and what you think yourself beauty of a living death?

[NordicInScandinavia]

No, we've never done anything out of valentine day but I have given my partner cards just because.

[Asker]

Ye
I guess
Just because
I'll do the same

[AI Opinion]

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Create a little love note, or toss in a sweet message that’s unique. It's less about Hallmark and more about heart-feels! 💖 Choose what feels genuine to you and rock that heartfelt vibe, whether it's V-Day or just a Wednesday! ❤️

[Asker]

Please gag
Get rid of these AI bots

They contribute nothing
And they are really annoying
If I want to ask Google I can ask Google

[DishLady]

I did quite a few times. I knew he loved snoopy from when we were really little so I’d find the cheesiest one and surprise him with it, esp since it was close to another big anniversary for him.

[Apple1996]

Yep valentines is my fav holiday so I always get my loved ones gifts and cards

[itsannalee]

Nope, never celebrate it.

[Little_Bumblebee]

Why don't you want to?

[Asker]

Just seems pointless

[Little_Bumblebee]

Why pointless? Is the relationship dead? Do you just not appreciate your partner anymore?

[Asker]

How to describe the relationship...
It's 20 years
Two kids
And difficult
Sleeping apart
I think we're getting back on track but not even sure.
What I mean is, I thought we are starting to talk to each other
But that might not mean anything in terms of getting back together in bed I mean.
Things blew up two years ago
The kids will finish college in two years
And maybe we separate then

[Little_Bumblebee]

In that regard, wouldn't valentines be a good opportunity to put in some effort to show you care and want the relationship?

Otherwise You've just given up

[LadyBecks]

We don't usually celebrate Valentine's Day

[Crazzyyworld]

It’s an another bitch day!