Can I say "hey sexy", even if we are not dating?

Xper 4 Age: 36

Guys, I am not dating the guy in question, but when he texts me I feel the urge to say something to the effect of "Hey babe!", "hey sexy", "hey wonderful!", etcccc (you know what I mean)

1. Is that too girly?

2. Is that inappropriate if I'm not your exclusive girlfriend?

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***This particular guy is someone who I have adored for the majority of my life. We are not exclusively dating due to distance, but when we are together we can't get enough of each other! He is just very "mysterious"! I can never tell how he is feeling***

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...so I can never determine how he will react to things. I just don't know if its a good idea lol

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JasonJenkind Follow
Xper 6 Age: 34 , mho 41%

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Ryelee,like I said in your other question if you like him there's no harm done . he will think that's cute if he likes you or not and will make him like you more either way, you go for it , there's nothing to loose as it will only result positively.

Your really worried about this aren't you? Look he would be mad not to like you ,go for it

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- RyeLee
  
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  Haha thanks 4 that. Hopefully you are right! I've known him for 9 years, yet he is still completely unpredictable =/
  
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- JasonJenkind
  
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  Haha hows that lol. um.... if you like each other even if its just friends he will appreciate it.
  
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metaldave20 Follow
Xper 4 Age: 37 , mho 50%

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im sure its fine, I've learned to deal with it... I take it as a term of endearment, nothing more, if I'm not interested in the girl... to us, its kinda like saying "whats up dude" and "hey man" to our friends

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- RyeLee
  
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  Good to know..........what if you knew that the girl was crazy about you? How would that effect your perception?
  
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- metaldave20
  
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  Then of course id take it as more than a term of endearment, each guy acts differently though, I don't know how he specifically thinks
  
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ggazelles Follow
Explorer Age: 40 , mho 63%

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"Hey sexy" would be fine, but if you're hesitant, maybe avoid the "hey babe" for now since that's a little more possessive of a term.

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coolguy93939 Follow
Explorer Age: 37 , mho 30%

+1 y

i wouldn't say it to a guy you don't wanna date or

something.. he might get the wrong idea

but other than that

u can say it

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- RyeLee
  
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  Oh I definitely want to date him. :)
  
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1stranger Follow
Guru Age: 47 , mho 45%

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Hi...

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- 1stranger
  
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  Good night.. Good work to you.
  
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