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I happen to take this matter personally because of what happened to me.

When I was 20, I met this 16 year old girl online on an adult dating app. We really hit it off, and we began conversing for a series of months. We both researched the age of consent in her state, and found that it was 16. I drove to meet her, and we had a date. Things got intense later, and we ended up having sex. It ended up only being a weekend fling because she didn't want to pursue a romantic relationship with me. I was heartbroken. We had a dispute weeks later, and she never wanted to speak to me again.

7 months later while at my college dorm, I made an idiotic decision to drive back to her state to apologize and win her heart again. I was met at the door by her father, who was unhappy to see me to say the least. I shook his hand and agreed to cut complete contact. As I went back to my hotel, the police knocked on my door and arrested me. Fast forwarding, I was sentenced to 3 years supervised probation. The collateral damages were just as bad if not worse, as I lost my EMT license and my career.

The reason why I bring this up is because if this were to happen to someone who was elite, had money, or had high influential status, they would have likely just received a slap on the wrist or not have been touched at all by the law.

Instead, an average everyday person, let alone a young 20/21 year old trying to pursue love at that time, had his entire reputation and livelihood destroyed.

These elitist bastards flew 14 year old girls on an island, passed them around as casual sex dolls, and they get away with it completely unscathed. It's sick.

Now that I am 31 and married, I look back in hindsight with regret and sadness I became so desperate. I was young and dumb. But I am even more angry at the devastation it caused for so many years when, meanwhile, elitists just continue to thrive and get away with high-profile crimes.

I don’t understand it!

I rely a lot on online dating as it’s hard to find girls from my culture and I look at my profile and I think how can a girl find a better guy? Because I tick all the boxes and I do really well on the odd app but I’ll mostly never match with the girls I want.

My conclusion is you can have it all and be doing really well in life but dating is just a weird game that doesn’t make sense a lot of the time.
Do you agree?

The older I get the less I can feel I can understand it and try to understand it. I used to think it was weird why people would end up single at 30 now I can start to see why.

From my profile you can say, I’m tall, handsome with a top career. I should do amazing right? I do get loads of matches, but not high quality ones.

Also conversations rarely go that far. I usually ignore most of my matches as I want stunning girls. I get loads of 5-7.5 looking girls.

I am the valuable commodity here and still I’m not getting what I deserve. The 9s10s, although they are rare on the dating app.