Is dating just a weird game, that doesn’t make a lot of sense?

[Anonymous]

I don’t understand it!

I rely a lot on online dating as it’s hard to find girls from my culture and I look at my profile and I think how can a girl find a better guy? Because I tick all the boxes and I do really well on the odd app but I’ll mostly never match with the girls I want.

My conclusion is you can have it all and be doing really well in life but dating is just a weird game that doesn’t make sense a lot of the time.
Do you agree?

The older I get the less I can feel I can understand it and try to understand it. I used to think it was weird why people would end up single at 30 now I can start to see why.

Dating is a weird game

Dating isn’t a weird game

[ProbablyClueless]

Dating really isn't that weird of a game, honestly... To be fair, dating has also gotten a lot harder in our lifetimes, though. I think being single into your thirties probably genuinely was a bigger deal when we were younger.

If you want to cut out a bunch of bullshit you could try asking your parents to connect you with women. If you want to stick to your guns with the online dating, try getting a group of your female friends together to build you a profile.

Women are really good about giving the romance "cheat code" to guys they like. I think it's because women tend to want to fix the things about guy friends that they think would make you more bangable.

The big thing is to be receptive to their suggestions though... just be genuinely receptive and appreciative.

[BonzoInBitburg]

Too much competition on dating apps. Get better at talking to women irl. You'll have no competition and it's much easier once you put in a little effort

[Anonymous]

Tired of crying about this yet? You're not as great as you think you are or you wouldn't be on a dating app and still failing. Go see a therapist about why you're a whiny internet troll.

[Opinion Owner]

Thank you so much for the MHO. I am so glad I could help you with your obvious issues.

[jahaims]

Nah, dating is straight forward. Immature people get confused and make it complicated. They are confused due to ignorance.