Why do you think there’s game playing when I comes to dating (and relationships)?

[AlwaysBelieving]

Any thoughts?

[PhenomenalQueen]

People play games because they shouldn’t be dating.. They have deeper issues and instead of working on them, they distract themselves with dating. “Hurt people, hurt people.”

[AlwaysBelieving]

Do you think a person will be at “a good place” in order to date?

[PhenomenalQueen]

You need to be in a good place to date in a healthy way. Lol a lot of people are dating when they have unhealed trauma and baggage.

[AlwaysBelieving]

I agree. I think what I was trying to get at is “do you think a person will be at a good place to date and then the dating starts and then more traumas pop up”? Then what?

[PhenomenalQueen]

No, if anything pops up it’s because they’re not healed.. so they’re not at a good place to date. They’re not ready. You know you’re ready when things are healthy. (Not including normal occurrences. for example someone dying, bad days, etc..)

[jahaims]

Ignorance and immaturity. Just look at all the posts on here asking "should I chase or have someone chase me" etc. People are simply moronic and don't think out their actions. Instead they mimic what they see around them even when it is failing.

[msc545]

Women play games. Unless you are dating men, that is what you have to deal with. No choice.