Why are there always mind games when it comes down to dating?

[Justneedtokno]

• Take for instance when a girl likes a guy she can’t be to desperate about it.
• She also can’t jump into bed with them too soon.
• She has to wait and let a guy miss you in order him to talk to you.

There a bunch of other little women tips but for guys there are too.

[Alyssa11]

I don’t think there should be any mind games when it comes to dating. If you play mind games you will attract the wrong type of people because they thrive off of unavailability since they have commitment issues.


I think you need to have boundaries. For example, I don’t sleep around with just anybody I’m dating because that’s my boundary. Different people have different boundaries and boundaries tell the other person how you want to be treated.

[Siren777]

I say ditch the BS and move on to someone who will treat you right. Every person has someone in their life that will treat them right but NO choose the one with the mind games. Choose your mental health over all the BS and you could save not months but years of heartache. 💅🏻

[Justneedtokno]

What if you move on and you’re not in love with them

[Shihab-91]

I support that women shouldn't look easy. And no don't jump in bed too soon there is sick men out there looking for just sex.
Its not mind games but you are building a trust with a new person there should be boundaries. But at the same time don't use this as an excuse to play immature games.

[JPrez]

Because in the beginning each one doesn’t know the other. It’s really all about control when you boil it down. So, games are played until you can exert your will to some degree over the other person and control the relationship.

[Justneedtokno]

I think it should be equal control.

[JPrez]

I agree but we all want to control everyday things in our life but we really can’t. Human Nature is such that we often try to bend and shape people close to us the way we want. Someone is always gonna push and pull.

[forever-or-never]

There are stigmas and sexist standards that pressure women into being less overt.


This makes it harder for everyone. Its not fair for women. And its not good for men either, to have to be a mindreader and guess if she's interested or not.

[AmeerX]

And using these mind games girls end up losing the guy to the competition 😂.
By the way, not sleeping is not a mind game. It is something a genuine person would tell us.

[Justneedtokno]

OK yes

[Phoenix98]

I don't know but what I do know is I'm not interested in playing mind games when it comes to dating/relationships.

Leave that stuff for kids and the immature.

[MCheetah]

Most mind games come from women and it's bullsh*t they play them. The only men who play mind games are players and PUA's, which probably less than 5% of men (if not 1%) actually are.

[Dontaa]

In a nutshell I just think it all comes down to people wanting something and they won't be able to get it without having to do some mental gymnastics.

[krin_m]

I don't go for mind games, and if someone is indulging in them, I just walk away. Life is too short for that. Some people enjoy them and good for them. Not my cup of tea! :-)

[Noodle_fan]

because many people are really good "actor" , aka F A K E

[Stevefiveo]

I like it when a girl is just herself and opens up.

[Jamie05rhs]

All of those games are bullshit and they accomplish nothing.

[fonduegirl]

Because as much as people enjoying claiming they want loyalty, commitment, trust and true love - they sure are attracted to other factors.

[jasco]

Well for years that hw its been for some odd reason, women weren't encourage to be that way, they did it themselves.

[COMMODOREII]

I don't like playing games

[Justneedtokno]

Me neither

[COMMODOREII]

I tell a girl how it is and what i want. I never beat around the bush. I flirt but i never use that to confuse her. I am level with a girl. She wants to know who i am i tell her. She will know me fairly quickly and never see me change. However, i noticed some girls don't like that.

[sensible27]

There don't need to be.

[Justneedtokno]

You would think it would not be like that but we still find ourselves doing little things

[sensible27]

Maybe. But would you like a relationship that works like that? Games and everything

[Justneedtokno]

No I don’t play games.

[Gwenhwyfar]

Just the way it is I guess

[OutdoorsForLife]

Guys and girls are different

[Justneedtokno]

Explain

[OutdoorsForLife]

• Take for instance when a girl likes a guy she can’t be to desperate about it.

Right. Girls make up all fairy tales emotions before saying two words to a guy. Those are not actual emotions about him.

• She also can’t jump into bed with them too soon.

Right. She could if she could not be so clingy. But when girls have an orgasm their body has clingy chemicals released

• She has to wait and let a guy miss you in order him to talk to you.

No. If he’s already into her that’s a game. Only she waits if he is unsure

[OutdoorsForLife]

Guys are less likely to sit around waiting for 6 months for their crush to magically walk up to them.

Guys don’t have clingy chemicals. Can orgasm and move to the next girl with no emotional attachment

Girls catch emotions faster than guys in most cases. So he can talk to her anytime he wants to, no need to wait

[Justneedtokno]

But see you just proved a point you don’t get emotions or feelings so therefore we have to wait or talk to someone else in the meantime.

[OutdoorsForLife]

Yes I proved men and women are diff, my original answer

[Justneedtokno]

I understand men and women are different. That doesn’t excuse the mind games

[OutdoorsForLife]

Only games work during sports and sex. Mind games are what children do

[Sia_nee]

I'm not into mind games.

[KrakenAttackin]

Women are responsible for 85% of the mind games.