Why do people play mind games when it comes to relationships?

[cth2188]

It’s why I don’t date anymore.. nor invest because people aren’t genuine anymore..

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Two things is for sure.. I don’t have to get hurt and secondly.. I don’t have to deal with the stress of this..

[Berethor]

Maybe it usually works for them to get what they want, so they keep doing that.

https://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/BeingGoodSucks

[cth2188]

Yeah and the other person?

[cth2188]

It’s stressful.. someone playing games like this will be alone

[Berethor]

A man who is not playing mind games with girls is more likely to be alone.

[cth2188]

Why many are alone and single unfortunately

[Berethor]

Being good is not easy, it's not uncommon for girl to choose bad guys over good guys.

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[CuriousMufuxka]

Because it works. Fuckin sucks, and I've been on the hook of that more times than I'd like to admit.

[cth2188]

No it actually doesn’t work playing mind games will get someone hurt.. why I don’t deal with people anymore

[CuriousMufuxka]

But your reply shows why mind games do work. You've been effected and gone full emotional!

[cth2188]

I don’t - I just don’t have time for the bs of how people are.. I don’t invest emotionally

[CuriousMufuxka]

Your choice, but I believe your emotional read my initial response incorrectly.

[cth2188]

Your response of me going full emotional is not accurate

[cth2188]

It’s time to grow up if your playing mind games

[cth2188]

It is my choice how I deal with people - you’ll most likely get blocked doing this

[CuriousMufuxka]

And now the crazy comes out lol

[cth2188]

Only one crazy is you

[cth2188]

I said what i would do if some played these types of games

[CuriousMufuxka]

You are playing a mind game right now! There is no crazy in personally admitting that they do work and being a victim myself.

[cth2188]

Who said playing games didn’t or do

[CuriousMufuxka]

Who just removed their own replies? Listen, I will now remove myself from this fuckery.

[cth2188]

You must be stupid or something

[CuriousMufuxka]

Please delete yourself for the happiness of others.

[cth2188]

I can do you a favor and block you off this broad.. everyone respond decently but you had to make my post complicated

[Bradley81]

From my experience, it's either they have different expections or fear.

[iseekpinetrees]

Because they are immature usually

[cth2188]

Agreed

[chris_987]

Yes immature is a factor but Manipulation is a way of controlling the relationship. Men and women do it so they can get what they want with certainty, with women it's commitment and with men it's just sex.