Positive reinforcement. Gush about something you like, something specific.
The #1 reason why a girl may stay covered up is because she believes she's fat. It doesn't matter whether this is true or blatantly false -- the reason is no less firm in her mind even if she's only 90 lbs.
If this is the case, do not address this reason, do not "knowingly nod", do not even acknowledge you know anything. This is key.
Now, focus on ONE thing you like about her physical person. Pick something you've heard her say she likes, or at least that you have not heard that she dislikes. Necks and shoulders are safe bets -- sensual and yet neutral -- or if you really wanna go for the gusto, breasts. If you're not sure, go for shoulders.
"Oh, honey, I just love how that shirt shows off your (part). You look so hot!" Then maybe growl and kiss her all over (part).
These statements not only express how sexy she is, but that her sexiness is tied in with HER CLOTHES. You can bet, once the message is reinforced enough times, she'll buy an item or two that will (tastefully) show off (part).
Note, be sure to keep on with the same part-choice!!! Otherwise, she'll see right through you.
Ooh that's a good idea! very respectful, but still getting your point across. - 2 months ago
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Shop with her for something sexy - but not too sexy and then ask her to wear it when you're spending a night in together. she'll see how much you like it and with you as the only audience for her new style, she'll gain confidence and hopefully start adding a little more spice to her style.
i think you should tell her but do it when you both drunk ;) she can't always wear what you like as she is human too as you are and can have other needs at this time, nothing wrong here
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