I tried convincing my girlfriend the other day how more attractive she’ll look if she just wore revealing clothing. She said that no she doesn’t want to and she flat out told me “it’s not of your business to decide what I should wear or not wear”. That pissed me off so for her birthday I decided to buy her a crop top that will show off her sexy belly. She then got mad at me and refuses to speak to me for two days now. She is starting to come around now since I apologized. She’s a nice and caring person so how can I convince her to start wearing a little bit loose? I want her to wear something similar to like the girl in the picture. I want to show her off to my friends and to the world. I want people to see how great I am to have such a hot girlfriend like her and to congratulate me for it. So how can I convince her to stop dressing so conservatively and boring?
How to convince my girlfriend to wear revealing clothing?
You should just respect her and her choice with what she wants to do with her body. I don't tell my boyfriend what to wear because he's fine as he is. Sure he could dress nicer but I don't care a whole lot about how he appears to my friends or other people I know. I know how much of a great person and how handsome he looks without clothes on and that's all that matters. And if he wanted to suddenly dress to impress I wouldn't mind that either.
You know what? Just love her for her! She said right... you don't have the rights to tell her what to wear and what not to wear... you can suggest but don't force her! she doesn't like to wear revealing clothes, it's okay... maybe she doesn't feel comfortable in it... but from what u told... she clearly doesn't like wearing these type of clothes. You care about what people think about you? and your relationship? Well, ukw? you shouldn't!
OMG. You are so ignorant just because she's your girlfriend doesn't mean you own her! she's her own person back the fuck off and let her do her if you dont like it then she deserves better.
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Fuck off, I’m asking this question so that I can get a real answer. If you have nothing smart to say then just shut your mouth.
Dude please, that's a good thing for you that's she's reserved just for you. in my opinion that's a good thing. Don't try to make her do something she doesn't deem necessary. Enjoy that girl she seems a keeper =) good luck 🤞
So, I tried this with my fiancé am still doing it and was successful but not completely done. Just a few more steps until I get what my final result is going to be to satisfy me. Before I get into the steps for this, I need to express, a lot of anything you want your girlfriend or wife to do, or have them do, has to do with your confidence and your masculine ability to drive to a goal or make a decision (just do something). Subconsciously, maybe sometimes consciously, most women don't want you to ask them what they want or what they want you to do, they just want you to do it. Don't talk about it. Don't be indecisive. Make decisions and be confident and make confident steps in a direction. At least for me, this is my fiancé's kink, and she knows I know it. Wish she didn't because that would make me seem like Superman to her but oh well. Compounding this concept with also knowing that most women don't know what they want until they get it, can be the the ultimate combo to being the Man in the relationship. Now this doesn't mean you should think to yourself, “Oh she's never tried anal, how would she know she doesn't like it, lemme just do it” Type shit. No. Don't be a dumbass about it. Read her. Read her body language. Her words. Her tendencies. Make sure you are intimately intelligent about her before you do something dumb and she runs away. A better example would be, surprising her with a new and maybe adventurous or sexy date. Take her to do something or do a thing with her that she's never done, and make it a surprise. It can be subtle things too. Like having a more dominant role during sex. Not controlling. Make her feel like she's in the safest place when in your arms. Make her feel like you are her impenetrable protective castle. Now, to do what you wanna try, you need to start small and private. An event behind closed doors where she feels comfortable and not exposed. Make her feel protected and comfortable because you're with her. Plan a surprise romantic date at home. Go all out. Make her feel special. Be romantic. Do the things you know she loves and do them with intent and passion. Woo her. Start to get intimate, make her excited the way you know how (like I said, get intimately intelligent about her). If and when it goes to the bedroom (if you did it right) have another surprise for her. Lingerie that you think she would look super hot in, or anything you think she would look super hot and sexy in (not like some crazy latex stripper suit🙄), try shein, they have some great stuff, sometimes good quality and great prices, and put it in the bathroom or elegantly placed on the bed. Tell them you have a surprise for her in one of those places. Make sure you are ready or get ready for her before she comes out. Do prepare for her to reject the idea for whatever reason. Neither of your faults but it means she's either not ready for that or not comfortable. Don't push it. Bad idea to push it. If you succeed and she's inviting to the idea then make the most intense and intimate love you've ever made with her. You don't have to verbally reinforce it but make sure she knows that you love how she looks in the outfit and make her feel like the most beautiful and sexiest being alive. After this event, if she reacted 100% positively, then you've succeeded at starting this. You can now introduce this slightly more but you still need to make her feel special and amazing and show her how much you love how she looks like this. Give her confidence with your confidence. Next, you could suggest something small (technically public but not visible) after she trusts your confidence in the fact that you think she looks super sexy and amazing in lingerie in the bedroom, you could suggest she wear some sexy underwear or a sexy bra and panty lingerie set under her clothes when you guys go out shopping or out to do something. If she does this, you've technically succeeded and you can stop there. But, if you want to get to the degree that I and my fiancé are at, then the next steps will require you to have absolute confidence capabilities. -“Showing more skin than normal… in public": I found the best way to do this, in my experience, is with swimwear. This may again, require a special occasion. When my fiancé and I went to Miami on vacation, I bought some pretty revealing swimwear for her and surprised her with it when we got to the hotel. I gave her three pieces and told her I thought she would look amazing in all of them but, I let her pick. I never said she had to wear them. I just gave them to her. She put on the most revealing one. These subtleties can help. Not pushing her to do anything. When she saw that I didn't care if she wore them or not it made her feel comfortable with me. The degrees increase but everyone's relationship is different so for you to expand and move up in degree with this is kind of thing is on you. You need to get emotionally intelligent about your woman. It may sound manipulative because I'm saying how all this works OUT LOUD but, many men are like this with their women naturally and they, (their woman), subconsciously (maybe consciously) love it but, to hear it all analyzed and broken down… makes it all sound trashy. I've gotten very far with my fiancé while using these skills. Most recently, I got her to dress up very scantily to a nightclub. Red vinyl tube top, black vinyl mini skirt (shows cheeks), black leather platform stiletto (very high) thigh-high boots, a loose-fitting 14k gold necklace that reads “Daddy's little C*mSl*t,” nighttime tinted triangle sunglasses, no panties and she was sporting the largest b**t pl*g she owns. Last year I also convinced her to get breast augmentation. She was a 30B now she's a 32G. I will attest all of these results to my practices above. Be confident and know your woman.
Note: My fiancé is Japanese (a local national from Okinawa Japan), 4′ 10″ 94lbs. I'm an American (Caucasian), 6′ 0″ 234lbs. I'm no Greek god by any means but I bodybuild.
Before me, she was very very vanilla. She also had zero confidence in herself and was subconscious about her image.
My final goal is to take her to the “Insomnia" nightclub in Berlin and perform Coitus there.
Some women actually have the decency to only want their partner to see and appreciate their body. Her body isn't some prize for you for you exploit to your friends.
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Okay so this makes me think that you’re not actually with her because you like her... moreeeee for your ego and self reputation. Not a good move.
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