Want my wife to wear revealing clothes?

[hetheman]

My wife use to wear revealing clothes before we met. Those day because of my feelings is insecurity, I didn't want her to wear them on front of other guys. (At the beginning we weren't physically together, she was abroad) and she change the way she dressed pretty fast. But now that we are married and together, I really want her to dress the way she used to. I've been really open minded about these stuff and even encourage her to wear more revealing and sexier stuff but she doesn't do that. She wear some stuff here and then but not like older times. What can I do about it?

[Moonchild714]

So first you tell her you don't want her wearing revealing clothing because of your insecurities and now with those same insecurities you want to put her on display like a trophy. To make yourself feel better... Not cool dude... So what happens when she starts enjoy some of that attention she's going to get from other men and reciprocates a little appreciation for their attention, you going to tell to stop again? See the thing with insecurities they are a roller coaster highs and lows, until you work through why you are so insecure and you still are don't ask her to make any further concessions!!!

[hetheman]

Made me think. Thanks

[ravenengr]

Well part of that is getting older... but you should go shopping together and pick out things you like for her, and compliment her when she wears things she likes. All women want to look good and love when their SO thinks they do

[MadeInAmerica]

I think she is playing on the safe side due to your prior insecurities or since now she is married she doesn't feel the need to wear those outfits anymore.

[Ericthebarberic]

Buy the stuff you want here to wear.. if she likes getting new clothes she's gonna wear what u buy

[hetheman]

Good idea! Thanks!

[Manuéél]

Why do you want her to wear revealing clothing in the first place

[Anonymous]

you can't force her to do anything, however, you can just tell her what you feel about it.. if she likes what you said, she may take it in to consideration

[hetheman]

I'm not going to force her to do anything. Haven't force her to not wearing those clothes ether. Just mentioned my worries a few times.

[Opinion Owner]

The way I see "revealing clothing" is, why do it every day? I mean, doesn't it kind of make your heart jump, when she decides "I want to wear something sexy, today".. if you see that every day.. it gets kind of boring..

That's how I see it at least, but, it's whatever

[hetheman]

You're right, and don't mean that. I just want her to wear them in occasions. She is just to consered about not wearing something to revealing. She even justify some of her cloths to for example cover more of her breasts.

[Opinion Owner]

I know why she's doing it, I just think she's doing the right thing, that's all

[oncpl]

My wife likes to wear revealing clothes, even sometimes see-thru but at home. I don't mind.

[Danielleo]

you want guys to hit on her?

[hetheman]

Why not.

[Danielleo]

they will be checking her out and hittng on her when your there and not there unless she feels un attractive i wouldn't do it you want some random bit to grab her ass beca use ice heard it happen to

[hetheman]

It actually happened one time. Some one grabbed her ass. And even more thinking about it arouses me!!

[Danielleo]

what did she way about it